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Jun 4, 2021 00:52
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Yokoyama from the staff here, adding my answer as well.
Looking young could be one of your charms, don’t you think? Personally, I prefer cute women to beautiful ones, so I think it’s a wonderful quality!
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Are women with a more mature look generally more popular?
As others have said, some men prefer women with a youthful appearance, so I don’t think you need to worry.
> Will having a youthful look mean receiving fewer offers?
Women often worry about the number of offers they receive, but rather than focusing on the number, it’s better to think about how you can continue seeing a male member if he turns out to be reasonably decent.
In a sense, both men and women have to be prepared to be treated as disposable when it comes to the number of offers. If you’re both able to put up with each other, facing one another and building a somewhat deeper relationship will make things more enjoyable（笑).
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu.
I often come across female members who are 18–20, college students, have a youthful look, and are considered popular with a Type C dating profile—so they’re likely to receive plenty of offers.
In fact, looking young can be a real advantage. Although it also depends on your overall appearance and vibe, I’d expect you to receive quite a few offers.
Being a college student and looking youthful could be valuable strengths for you.
I originally got into this because I wanted to date an ordinary young woman who was unjaded and innocent-looking.
Of course, I understand that someone who registers with a dating club isn’t truly inexperienced. But I find it appealing when someone has a refined, innocent look yet is enthusiastic and responsive when it comes to the intimate side of things.
I think quite a few papas share views similar to mine.
I’m looking forward to seeing you join.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think a lot of women only look mature in their photos, but when you meet them in person, they often have a charm that suits their actual age.
Also, no matter how mature a woman looks, if a woman in her 20s is walking around with a papa in his 50s, people are probably going to assume there’s some kind of story behind it… I try to dress in a way that makes me look more like an older woman, but people still whisper about us at restaurants sometimes. Even when we’re getting along and playfully affectionate, I’m sure they assume I’m a hostess or that we’re on a lounge companion date. There’s nothing to do but accept it…
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
It’s absolutely fine!
That kind of hesitation is actually a good sign, so I think it would be best to speak openly about it during the interview.
Other
Universe has a large number of both male and female members, so there are people with all kinds of preferences.
Some prefer younger members who look youthful, while others like younger members who have a more mature appearance.
On the other hand, even I’ve received offers despite being in my late 40s.
In short, I don’t think you need to worry.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I can’t say whether mature-looking women or obviously younger women are more popular. Men have all kinds of preferences.
Some men avoid pairings that clearly look like papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), while others don’t mind.
There are also men who like women with a youthful appearance, so I don’t think you need to worry.