Tips
Jun 3, 2021 23:21
3 answers
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a male member.
1—Before confirming whether the condom was removed or came off, take the necessary action first.
Go to a gynecologist within 72 hours, get an “after-pill,” and take it. It’s best to consult your doctor about possible side effects and what may happen to your body before deciding. Since timing is critical, please prioritize this.
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I think it’s perfectly reasonable to honestly ask him to cover the cost of the medication and any related expenses. The total should be around ¥10,000.
3—
What you do after that is up to you.
You’re probably still shaken today. Once you’ve calmed down, gather your thoughts and feelings, then speak honestly with him about what you want.
If you never want to see him again, I think you should ask him to cover the expenses and tell him that you won’t be meeting him again.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the president’s office.
For now, I think you should ask for the money for the medication upfront. Since it was an accident, you’re not to blame, but you want to take the medication because you’d be in trouble if you became pregnant.
You could say something like:
“Could you give me another ¥20,000? If there’s any change left over, I’ll return it next time.”
That said, if he took it off without your consent, he’s a dishonest man, so I don’t think you need to see him again. In that case, you probably don’t need to mention returning the change either.
They say the morning-after pill should be taken within 72 hours, but its effectiveness is higher if you take it within 24 hours, so I think you should take it as soon as possible.
There are also generics such as NorLevo generics, which should be a little cheaper. (Generics are generally just as effective.)
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
You shouldn’t do it without permission. At the very least, you should get enough to cover the cost of emergency contraception. You can ask for more, too—enough to feel satisfied.