I have a papa in his 50s.
He’s wonderful—not just in terms of his looks, but especially his personality.
If we hadn’t met here and he weren’t married, I’d honestly want to pursue a serious relationship with him.
To be honest, I never expected to meet a man like this here.
Are there many other wonderful men like him at Universe Club?
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
You’re just caught up in the excitement right now（笑）.
If you like him as a whole—his looks, personality, the fact that he’s married, and the way you met through the club—then things are probably best left just as they are.
Why do married men get involved in club activities? Until he married his wife, he was probably in the same situation you’re in now. But changes in circumstances brought on by marriage can disrupt that ideal state. Even small changes in our surroundings can change how we feel.
As for your question: there probably aren’t that many men you personally find wonderful. But there are surely plenty of men you don’t find appealing whom other women would consider wonderful. So I suppose there are a lot of wonderful men out there.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
There probably aren’t that many of us, but my guess would be:
20% are men who are attractive and have great personalities
60% are men who are average in both looks and personality
20% are below average in both looks and personality
I’d say the breakdown is probably about like that.
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I’m in Seattle.
Once the age gap exceeds 25 years, if we go for a spa treatment together while traveling, I’ll have her call me “Dad” or “Papa.”
Something like, “Mom went shopping and isn’t coming back,” you know.
If the age gap is around 20 years, I’ll treat her like my girlfriend and cherish her.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I sometimes feel that way about my papa too, but when I really think about it, he’s married with children and still pursuing women at a dating club who are over 20 years younger than him—girls around the same age as his daughter.
Honestly, it’s a huge turn-off. If I were married and my husband pursued a girl over 20 years younger than him, I’d find it absolutely disgusting.
I think papas seem like gentlemen because they ease their guilt over this kind of forbidden behavior with money, kindness, and a certain amount of restraint. When I look at it that way, I feel like I should stop letting myself get carried away.
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Hmm… I get where you’re coming from, but I feel like that kind of thing is just a hypothetical fantasy.
As long as there’s an allowance involved, you’re both simply showing each other your best sides—it’s basically a rigged game.
I have a twisted personality, so even if someone falls for the idealized image of a good papa (a male supporter) that I’m playing, I somehow end up disliking them instead. I feel like there must be others with this kind of warped mindset, but maybe not. Am I the only one? lol
Try dating without an allowance, just for the sake of it. I’m sure you’ll immediately see both of your true colors, and it’ll turn into a nasty mud fight. lol
Change the playing field, and different sides of the other person—including sides you’d rather not see—will start to leak out. Then see whether you still think they’re wonderful.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Not only is she attractive, but her personality is truly wonderful.
I’m an old man and one of the poorer members of the dating club, so that doesn’t really apply to me—but think about it carefully. You can’t become wealthy unless you’re that kind of person...
That said, I do have a strong sex drive too (lol).
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I’m a male member, and my username is Kamihikōki.
All the women here seem wonderful and likely to have always been popular, so I imagine there are also plenty of men who are worthy of having such amazing women as their companions.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Sometimes, the women I’m seeing tell me, “Even after I get married, I’d like to keep seeing you—I won’t need an allowance.” It’s happened to me, too. I’ve also heard that some couples who met through Universe Club ended up getting married, so I imagine there are quite a few matches like that.
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