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May 30, 2021 15:15
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Other
I’m NanA Ayase, a female member. This is my first answer—thank you for having me.
In my case, I’m always seeing three wonderful men, about twice a month each.
Twenty-five people sounds exhausting… Also, wouldn’t you feel a little down hearing that a woman is seeing so many people? If a man told me he was seeing lots of other women too, I’d be shocked and would end the relationship.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
In my case, I’ve met more than ten men in total since joining the dating club. Over time, I gradually narrowed it down to the ones I’m compatible with, and now I see fewer than five.
I’d absolutely hate to be intimate with ten-plus men around the same time—I’d be worried about getting sick.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
It probably depends on what you consider the standard for saying you’re “dating” someone and how long you’ve been seeing them.
Since “double digits” includes 10 people, I can imagine someone temporarily dating around 10 men at once.
Because it’s temporary, some of those relationships may have ended a few months later.
They might have a few men they’re seeing long-term and value those relationships, while also continuing to look around in case another good man comes along. In that sense, I can see how the number could reach around 10.
If you look at it that way, I don’t think it’s necessarily a lie.
I’ve never heard of 25, though. For example, if someone received offers from 15 people in the month they registered, followed by another 10 offers the next month, I suppose the number could reach 25.
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
I think that’s true.
Some women meet a different man every day.
Others are able to see the same man every day.
I think both men and women have different preferences in that regard.
Personally, when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I feel that meeting only two or three times a month—or less—isn’t really a relationship. It’s more like occasionally seeing each other. No matter how many women I had like that, I wouldn’t count them among the women I genuinely wanted to date regularly.
I think some people are satisfied with quantity, while others value quality—the level of intimacy.
And, as in your case, I think the arrangements that naturally work for both people will be the ones that continue.
After all, if both sides are seeing double-digit numbers of people, it’s not as though they can say, “Sure, I can see you anytime—even every day”…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
From what I’ve heard, it’s generally five or fewer.
I wouldn’t want to have sexual relations with a woman who’s had double-digit numbers of partners—I’d be worried about diseases. I’d prefer a relationship where we just talk.
I think what that woman said is probably true. Women with ten or more dating partners are probably rare. They may not show up in the Q&A because they aren’t interested in relationships with individuals, are extremely busy, or are aware that they have many partners and therefore don’t bother posting about it.