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I'm thinking about telling my papa about my eating disorder. Should I avoid telling him that I've thrown up everything I've eaten with him until now?

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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. It may be okay to talk about your eating disorder, but I think you need to recognize that you’re doing it for your own sake, not for the other person’s. Also, just because you’ve mentioned having an eating disorder doesn’t mean you need to go as far as telling them that you used to vomit up everything you ate. You did eat it at least once, so I think that’s fine in itself. They may be able to sense it without you saying anything. And if you don’t think it’s something that serious, then that’s fine too. Besides, I’m not sure what the other person is supposed to do with a story about you vomiting.
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I’m Kobayashi from the Tokyo branch. I think you’ll feel less burdened if you tell him…! However, if you haven’t known the gentleman for very long, it’s understandable to feel hesitant…
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
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I’m in Seattle. If he’s accepting of eating disorders, it should be okay to tell him that you purge. Being too thin can be life-threatening, so please seek treatment.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. If you’re going to talk about your eating disorder, I think it’s best to be prepared to discuss it if you’re asked. As for the fact that you used to make yourself vomit, it’s probably safer not to bring that up yourself.
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