Tips May 26, 2021 16:24

What do you think of a man with a lot of ex-wives? Does it give you a bad impression? Should I not bring it up? Is the fact that I don't have a wife a plus? Whenever I mention that I have children, their faces stiffen...??

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I really wish I could spend the child support and other payments I make to my ex-wives on my favorite girls.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. I think most people don’t really care about the number of ×s, but— > I really wish I could redirect the child support I pay to my ex-wives toward my favorite girls. I think that mindset is absolutely the worst. Especially when it comes to the children—they’re your own kids, aren’t they? To talk as though you don’t want to pay child support is completely unacceptable. Go back and start over from the sperm stage.
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This is Umino from the Tokyo branch. I don’t think having children is a problem. Perhaps she mistook you for someone who was married, got nervous, and her expression became tense. If you’re concerned about how women react, it may be best not to bring up your marriage or children yourself unless necessary.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member with more ◯s than ✖️s. When there are more ✖️s—or even a tie—I can’t help wondering what all that experience was supposed to accomplish. (That said, I’m setting myself aside here.) If it hasn’t led to a better life… wouldn’t that experience have been wasted? Divorce takes an incredible amount of energy, you know. And if child support is involved as well, it also seems like there was far too little planning or lasting love. In the end, I suppose it’s understandable if people see someone like that as a problem—someone who’s disliked by the opposite sex and whose relationships have ended in failure time and again. Still, up to two times might fall within the range of something you occasionally come across.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Some people really never learn. Since the questioner and I are both men and have no vested interests here, I don’t have any particular feelings about it. By bringing it up, what kind of person does the questioner want to be seen as? When it comes to not having a spouse, I think it varies from person to person whether they feel more relieved that there’s nothing to worry about or more like single people seem troublesome. Generally speaking, I think people would feel uncomfortable hearing that you have children. What are you hoping to achieve by telling them you have children? Child support and the like are, in my view, the consequences of the questioner’s own life choices—namely, repeatedly getting married and divorced.
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