I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to repay my student loans, and I’ve had a regular papa (a male supporter) on a monthly arrangement for about six months. His first birthday since we met is coming up, and he told me he wants a GUCCI hoodie costing around ¥200,000 as a present. (My birthday hasn’t come yet.) Of course, I do want to celebrate him, and I had been thinking about a present in my own way. However, I was shocked that he asked for something so expensive. He said, “I give you a monthly allowance and take you out for nice meals every time, so you should do at least that much for me.” I can’t afford it, and since I had told him that I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to pay off my student loans, I was honestly hurt. Would someone really be happy to receive a designer item from a young woman who has no money and is young enough to be their daughter? Also, how do you all handle presents for your papas (male supporters)? I’d really appreciate hearing from members.

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