I’m exhausted by so many things and feel like there’s no point in being alive anymore.
I feel like life would be more enjoyable if I had a strong sex drive and could devote myself to kinky things.
What can I do to increase my sex drive?
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I believe men are the ones who have sexual desire, while women have a desire to transform themselves—through clothes, makeup, beauty treatments, dieting, and so on—to attract men.
So I don’t think women experience male-level sexual desire unless they’re masculine women.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’d say I have a fairly strong sex drive, but it really varies from day to day.
Men can be surprisingly sensitive when it comes to sex. It’s well known that a bad experience in bed can sometimes lead to ongoing difficulty getting an erection. You may still get hard when you’re physically tired, but when you’re mentally exhausted, things often don’t work as well. The same can happen when you have worries on your mind.
Rather than increasing your sex drive, I think staying mentally healthy is important for maintaining it.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
When your body and mind are exhausted, you don’t feel much sexual desire either. Among men who do papa-katsu, those with especially strong sex drives seem to be people who naturally have a lot of stamina. They’re tough both physically and mentally, so to speak.
Also, this is just my personal view, but sometimes a man’s sexual desire seems to overlap with a desire for control. At times, I wonder whether the urge to dominate a particular woman or the desire to feel like he’s “won her over” manifests itself as sexual desire. So, in that sense, I think it’s perfectly normal that the person asking this question doesn’t feel that kind of desire.
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Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here.
The other day, a woman who often goes to swinger bars came in for a reshoot.
Rather than focusing on your sex drive, why not start by experiencing places like that first?
If you try various other things that aren’t considered typical, I feel you may discover a way of living that’s separate from your sex drive.
Also, if you’re not registered with Universe, you might consider signing up. I think there are men there who would treat you kindly.
When you’re feeling tired, it might be nice to spend time with someone like that.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Desire is something that naturally arises, so I can’t think of any way to increase one’s sex drive.
Women who enthusiastically go along with unconventional things seem, if anything, to be driven more by curiosity than by sexual desire.
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