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May 21, 2021 02:18
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柄崎 一成（スタッフ）
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I’m Karasaki from Universe Club Customer Success, and I’ll answer this as well.
Whether it’s money you receive through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or wages you earn from a job, wouldn’t you feel put off if someone suddenly asked how much you make, regardless of the amount?
I can understand if a man asked you, but I’m not sure what situation would lead you to bring up how much you receive through papa-katsu yourself…
If he asked, I think it’s fine to simply tell him the truth.
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I’m BB7, a male member.
Generally speaking, I think women in their 20s earn around ¥2–3 million a year. That works out to roughly ¥200,000 a month take-home, give or take.
Some women can’t even afford to stay at a hotel costing ¥10,000–20,000 a night. Others are genuinely thrilled by what they consider a luxurious ¥5,000 meal. There are also women living in poverty who use internet cafés as their homes.
I don’t look down on anyone based on how much they earn. But I am put off by vulgar women who ignore the realities of the world, become increasingly numb to the value of money, spend hundreds of thousands—or even millions—freely, and dress themselves head to toe in brand-name goods that don’t even suit them.
Sorry for the harsh comparison, but I mean women like the wife who was arrested.
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I don’t know what level you’re at, but for someone at the level of a model (a top finalist in a beauty pageant) or below a relatively well-known talent, I feel that earning more than around ¥3 million a month can start to cause psychological problems.
Of course, I’m talking about women who don’t pay taxes and keep the cash at home.
(Hosts, cryptocurrency, suicide, etc.)
For highly famous women at the top, even earning more than ¥10 million a month probably wouldn’t affect them.
However, the number of men they date is extremely limited, so women in that class will definitely end up seeing the same men.
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
I think the key question is whether a man would be put off if you told him your terms outright.
I’m not sure why you’d want to tell a man how much allowance you received from other men. Some men might be put off at that point.
That said, I don’t think a man would necessarily be put off whether a woman earned ¥10 million or ¥100 million through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
However, if a woman who had earned over ¥100 million through papa-katsu told me, “This is how much I’ve made,” I think I’d feel much the same as I would meeting a man with an annual income of over ¥100 million.
So, I suppose I’d be surprised, but not put off.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’d be a little put off if she were earning more from this than from her regular job.
**Edit:**
When I was thinking about my answer, I first wondered whether I’d be put off if her allowance income exceeded one million yen a month. In that case, though, I think I’d be impressed rather than put off.
In fact, I know several women who received over one million yen a month in allowance and were being supported by papas who expected a certain level of commitment. Hearing about them was interesting and impressive, but I wasn’t put off.
So when I imagined when I might feel somewhat put off, I realized it would probably be when I heard her say, “Now that my allowance is higher than my day-job salary, working feels ridiculous.”
That’s the answer I gave above.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
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Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member and a graduate of [Hidai University].
I’m not a fan of ikura. There are just too many of them. The same goes for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).