Question about female members’ desired monthly allowance.
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I sometimes see female members listing desired monthly amounts of ¥500,000 or even ¥1,000,000.
Since it’s their desired amount, I think that’s perfectly fine, but on the other hand, my monthly limit for supporting one woman doesn’t come close to that, so even when I’ve been attracted to someone, I’ve had to reluctantly give up.
However, a few days ago, I saw an answer to another question (I don’t remember the details very well) and started wondering whether that desired amount might be what the woman herself hopes to receive in total, rather than the amount she wants from one man.
For example, even if her desired amount is ¥1,000,000, perhaps she means that she would be happy as long as she received a total of ¥1,000,000 from relationships with multiple men at the same time…
Which brings me to my question: Generally speaking, what do women who register with such high desired amounts have in mind? I imagine both types exist, but which seems to be more common?
If you’ve heard anything about this, or if you’re a woman who actually does it that way, I’d appreciate hearing from you.
Now that I’ve thought of it, I’m planning to make an offer at least once, prepared for the possibility of being turned down, but having some prior knowledge and mental preparation would certainly help. I’d appreciate any insight.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
How much annual income is the person asking the question hoping to earn?
Everyone answers differently when asked that. Some people may say they want to become famous someday and earn 100 million yen a year, while others may give a more realistic figure.
But even if someone answers “100 million yen,” I doubt they would only work in jobs paying that much. It simply means that’s what they hope to earn someday.
With that in mind, I don’t think you need to read too deeply into a woman’s desired amount. You won’t know how much she actually wants unless you ask her directly.
If you’re attractive, fun to talk to, or take her somewhere nice for dinner, she may feel that your desired amount is acceptable.
Whether you’re her type is important too.
I’d suggest making her an offer first, then asking how much she would like when you invite her to continue things after dinner.
There’s also a chance she’ll be happy with an amount within your budget.
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I’m Kasaki from Universe Club Customer Success, and I’d like to answer this as well.
Women like that are either genuinely new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and mistakenly believe from online advertisements that everyone receives about that much, or they’ve actually had a papa (a male supporter) who paid them that amount in the past.
In fact, during interviews, I’ve met a woman who said she had received ¥1 million a month from a single papa, so apparently there really are women like that out there.
In the former case, after going on dates with a few people, most women realize that deals that good are rare and lower their expectations.
I hope this helps.
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I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
Most of the time, I’m answering without really knowing much, so don’t worry about it and feel free to reach out. In fact, since many men may steer clear, this could be a good opportunity for you.
Occasionally, though, it may be one of those feng shui–type accounts coached by a scout. You can probably figure that out from their other answers.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’d be more than happy if I could receive ¥500,000 from a single papa (a male supporter), but most women aren’t that lucky, so I think they aim for that amount by seeing multiple papas.
It may sound money-minded, but how about meeting on a pay-per-meeting basis without worrying too much about the money at first, and then increasing the allowance and keeping her exclusive if you hit it off? I don’t think there’s any need to give a large amount from the beginning.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If you’re going to receive money, it’s only natural to want as much as possible—even if it’s just one yen more. Where you set your goals is up to you. And when you learn the reality of the situation, it’s also up to you whether you stick with your original goal or give up and lower it.
I agree with Mack’s answer. It might be better to wait some time after a new member registers, let her get a sense of the reality, and then make an offer. At that point, all I can do is hope that learning the reality hasn’t left her jaded. (lol)
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think most people haven’t really thought it through that deeply. Also, those figures are usually given before they’ve actually had any relationships, so their views often change once they face reality.
Those desired amounts can be misleading, so I don’t use them as a reference. You can’t really know anything without meeting and talking—in fact, I’d say you won’t know until you’ve dated for a while.
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I’m a column writer, Flagmaker.
I only pay what I can afford, but I think the women listed desired amounts of ¥300,000 or ¥500,000.
There’s no general rule—it depends on the woman, and her expectations may have changed. So try making an offer first.
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I’m in Seattle.
One generous papa (a male supporter) who can cover it all is fine, but if that’s not possible, I think having multiple papas would work too.
Nothing to lose—let’s go!
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