Are there any telltale signs of a girl who offers good value for money? You’re all pretty good at finding them. Even though I just joined, most of the women I’ve met seem to have that greedy dating-app mentality. I’ll deliberately make offers to women who are unattractive but still within my acceptable range, and they’ll still demand 50,000 yen or more, completely misjudging their worth. D-cups are a lot to handle. That’s about it. I’ve met some good girls whose value matched the amount they asked for, though.
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I’ll probably get criticized for saying this, but I want to believe there are still some good-value girls mixed in out there. ( ◠‿◠ )
Maezawa from the president’s office will answer this one as well.
If all you’re looking for is a woman who asks for a low allowance, you can probably find plenty of women asking for around 30,000 yen on apps or message boards.
Trying to find someone like that through a dating club is like staying at an ultra-luxury hotel and complaining, “Why is this room such poor value for money?”
People who stay at ultra-luxury hotels seem to do so because, although they’re expensive, they feel they offer good value.
If your only concern is paying less in absolute terms, you can simply stay at a business hotel.
I think dating clubs work the same way.
Do you really want to meet wonderful women, or do you simply want to meet women who are cheap?
Think carefully about that. If you prefer the cheaper option, you can just cancel your membership and go somewhere less expensive.
I get the feeling that dating clubs may not be the right fit for you.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If you’re so focused on getting the best value for your money, why not go to a soapland in Yoshiwara? You can choose from plenty of options to fit your budget.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
It may sound like a silly question, but it might get to the honest feelings of male members, so I’ll answer seriously.
Put simply, there are women who see their allowance as a measure of their worth, and women who don’t. To put it bluntly, looking for a woman who offers good value for money means looking for the latter, right? To answer your question: yes, women like that do exist. There’s one woman who’s currently a model and also works as a race queen, yet remains modest even with an allowance below the “5” you mentioned. Apparently, she’s also very receptive in intimate situations and is always praised by men.
The money-focused girls would probably think, “Why wouldn’t she ask for more? Is she stupid? She’s just bringing down the going rate and making things harder for everyone.” But women like her really do exist.
In the end, it comes down to what that person values. You probably meet men through work who want praise, want power, like having a little extra cash, or simply want to maintain their standards as a person. Women can be like that too. Finding someone like this is what lies in the gray area of dating clubs—something you won’t find at a sex-service establishment or hostess club. If that’s what you’re looking for, keep searching and you’ll find someone.
But if you genuinely think in terms of “good value for money,” that’s not a good sign. Even if she doesn’t see her worth as being defined by her allowance, she must be looking for something else. You need to resonate with the values she considers important. Otherwise, you won’t build a good relationship.
Good luck. Youth is about facing your own desires head-on—even the ones other people might consider awful—and wandering around in search of an answer. Youth isn’t about age, you know.（笑）
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I’m Aya, a female member.
The amount you think it’s okay to spend on a woman is the price you’re putting on your own sexual desire.
In other words, you think your own sexual desire is worth only ¥50,000. Whether that’s high or low depends on the person, of course, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.
I’m sure there are women who would say, “That’s fine,” even to a man who says his sexual desire is worth less than ¥50,000.
The other day, one of my papas (male supporters) and I bought all kinds of fruit at a supermarket near a lovely hotel, arranged it on a plate, and had a tasting session. It cost less than ¥5,000, but I was genuinely happy. He cut, peeled, and arranged all the fruit for me with a knife.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member.
That really depends on the man.
You should improve your own performance. If you’re not going to increase the allowance, you need to show what more you can offer in return.
It’s not about the other person—it’s your own issue.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Hmm… we’re playing on such different fields that I can’t really say. I feel like I’m constantly wrestling with myself over whether I’m worth the allowance I pay myself.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I ignored the series of questions from Koiking Kiss because I didn’t think they were worth answering, but this one is even less deserving of a response.
I don’t think there’s any particular trick to it. If you make enough offers, you may eventually meet a woman whose allowance seems reasonable to you. Why not start with one offer a day?
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I’m incredibly good value, if I do say so.
My partner is absolutely thrilled, and because he’s happy, he’s more than willing to give me a generous allowance.
Marika
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