I really like him as a papa (a male supporter), but sometimes my feelings suddenly cool off. I’ve felt this way for about five days now, and we’re supposed to meet this week. I’m not planning to cancel at the last minute, so I’d like to find a way to get my motivation back, but I’m not sure how to get myself in the mood…
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Do you ever feel like you’re not in the mood to meet? If so, what do you do about it?
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, too.
If you like this person, maybe you can get yourself to go on the date by thinking, “What if they spoil me and make a fuss over me when we meet?”
Once you actually meet, don’t things usually work themselves out somehow?
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I was in a similar situation just two or three days ago. Whatever I tried to do, I felt like, “Nothing good has happened lately,” and I couldn’t get motivated about anything. I had plans to meet a woman, so I was thinking, “I really don’t feel like going,” but she hadn’t done anything wrong. As I reluctantly got ready and headed out, my mood gradually lifted, and in the end, we had a great time together and I was very satisfied.
Sometimes your mood gets low when you feel like you have to do something or you’re under a lot of mental pressure. But at some point, if you tell yourself, “It’ll work out somehow,” and let it go, you’ll often feel better.
I’m sure meeting your favorite papa (male supporter) will cheer you up.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
When that happens, I go all out with my hair and makeup. I usually curl my hair, but I might also add a hair accessory or try a new hairstyle. Once I feel cute, I look forward to going out.
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I’m Column Writer Flagmaker.
I actually prefer people who aren’t overly high-energy or constantly laughing at everything. I also have days when I’m tired or feeling down, so when my energy is low, I go on dates that way. I only want to see women who are okay with that.
That said, I’m the one paying the allowance, so I can perhaps afford to be that way. But generally, it seems that when the woman is low-energy, men may unpleasantly point it out by saying things like, “You seem kind of down.”
So, while some effort is necessary, the allowance is the compensation for it.
In other words, treat an unpleasant date as work. Think of it as an opportunity to use your people and sales skills, not a place to show your true self. Focus on honing those skills.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I believe that whenever you come down, you’ll rise again by the same amount.
Like a rubber band or a bouncing ball, whenever you’re stretched thin or drop, you’ll bounce back up just as far. So I don’t worry—I just wait for that day.
Even if my spirits are low right up until we meet, they lift the moment I see her. Women really are an oasis.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Even as a man, there are times when I don’t feel like meeting a woman. But I make the effort because I feel like the relationship will end if I don’t give her the allowance she wants—and finding someone else would be a hassle.
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