Tips May 18, 2021 14:38

When I opened my eyes while kissing my monthly partner, she looked really disgusted.

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I love kissing, so I give her what’s known as a “Magikarp kiss,” practically licking her lips all over. Even so, she accepts it every time, so I assumed she was enjoying it, but when I happened to open my eyes, she had a really uncomfortable look on her face. More specifically, she had her eyes and nose tightly scrunched shut and was stiff as a rock. I’d never really paid attention before, but I also noticed that after a few seconds of kissing, she would turn her face away and take a deep breath, or rub her mouth against the sheets until it turned red. It suddenly completely killed the mood for me. I don’t know whether she dislikes me personally or simply doesn’t like kissing that much. Ladies, what goes through your mind when you’re kissing a man from the club? Have you ever done any of the things I described above?
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Saying “I was turned off” makes me think the questioner has a pretty narrow-minded perspective. As Mac said, you need to clearly separate whether you want to make your partner feel good or whether you just want to feel good yourself. Actually, even without making that distinction, it’s obvious that you only want to feel good—you’re simply mistaking your own pleasure for your partner’s. If that’s the case, I think you should be grateful that the woman is putting up with it. That said… “Licking her lips all over with all your might”— That sounds pretty gross… ><
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I’m Aya, a female member. Ugh, that’s disgusting… Sorry, my honest feelings slipped out. No matter how much I’m offered, I just can’t do a Magikarp kiss.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Whether it’s kissing or anything else, a man’s pleasure comes from satisfying a woman. So rather than going the wrong way down a one-way street, let’s take a moment to reconsider how we move forward.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Seattle. Basically, older men’s breath smells no matter what, so it’s better not to kiss them. She’s probably breathing through her mouth and putting up with it for the money. If you absolutely have to, only do it within five minutes of brushing your teeth—and drink some water right beforehand. Keep sucking on a mint like Mintia the whole time, too. Before long, we may see a question from someone angrily complaining that their partner’s breath smells.
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Even if she really likes you, most women would probably hate the kind of kissing you described. I honestly can’t believe you thought she was enjoying your kisses, when so many women here have been calling for the eradication of Magikarp kisses. Rather than just thinking, “That was a turn-off,” I wish you had at least thought to yourself, “I’m sorry for making you put up with things you hated all this time.” If you intend to continue seeing her and manage to make plans again, try keeping the kissing light next time and see how she reacts. If she still wipes her mouth vigorously with the sheets, I think you should say goodbye. With the next woman, take the foul-mouthed girls’ advice here, pay full attention to your breath(笑), and retire the Magikarp kiss. Then you might be able to have a good relationship. Marika
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. I’ll check my partner’s expression during a kiss next time and get back to you. Please wait a little. That said, based on my experience, some women simply don’t want to kiss that deeply. With someone like that, I’ll hold back on deep kissing and decide whether to continue based on the overall picture, including other positives. P.S. Sorry—I misunderstood. A “Koi King kiss” and a deep kiss are two different things, apparently. I’ve never actually done a Koi King kiss ^^;
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