Tips May 15, 2021 21:54

How should I respond when someone says, “You must be popular”? What should I say? I get approached pretty often, but I feel awkward saying that myself.

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Would answering honestly with “Yeah, I am” make me seem more like a desirable woman?
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“Not really,” with a smile and a little blush—something like that. Is it creepy for someone my age to act like this? I’m sorry. Marika
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. Yes, I’m popular. *Smiles.* I like this.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. I think either of these would work: “Not at all.” or “Yeah (you know what I mean?)”
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. It’s just a compliment about your appearance. Since it’s a compliment, the right response is, “Thanks♡” But if you want to push things a little further, hit them with a counter like: “Well… people often tell me that, but I feel like no one ever truly cares about me or actually falls for me… Do you think you could fall for me, ○○?♡” That ought to scare them a little, lol.
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Chikuwa here, one of the male members. If an attractive woman said, “I’ll leave that to your imagination, hehe,” or a sweet, wholesome-looking woman said, “I’m not popular at all~ ><,” I’d be pretty happy.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, with an answer as well. > What should I say in response? Something like: “I get that…” should work. A woman who’s popular isn’t going to deny it. And when we hear that, we think, “Well, of course she is,” so it doesn’t seem that strange to me. On the other hand, if she says, “I’m not popular,” I find myself wondering, “Why not?” That can be nice in its own way, too, though.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. There’s a perfect phrase from Naniwa for times like that: “Bochi bochi denna.” ("Not too bad.")
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