I’m a male member. When I date Platinum-level beauties, things tend to feel like an assembly line—perhaps because they’re flooded with offers. Would dating someone Black-level allow for a more relaxed date?

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. When a woman is receiving a lot of offers, she ends up going on dates with all kinds of men, regardless of their class. Naturally, her attitude during a date may differ between men she likes and men she thinks, “No, this isn’t going to work.” With that in mind, I suspect there’s something about your dates that isn’t measuring up compared with those of other men. It could be your grooming, your choice of restaurant, or the topics you talk about. I can’t say for sure, but I think you should take another careful look at your own dates. At the moment, one of our staff members is working on a “male makeover project,” advising men on things like how to dress. As part of that, they first share feedback from women the men have previously dated. One comment was: “I didn’t like that he wouldn’t wash.” “Wouldn’t wash the woman’s body?” I wondered. “What does that mean?” Apparently, it meant that the man was intimate without washing himself first. I thought, “That’s absolutely awful…” And when they told him about it, he replied, “Did that really happen?” It made me realize that people can avoid honestly examining their own behavior and simply play dumb. If he pretends not to remember, does that mean he’ll continue not washing? From a woman’s perspective, the thought of having to be intimate with someone like that must be painful… Anyway, I’ve gone off track. If you can’t properly reassess yourself, you may see something that looks strange to others as perfectly normal to you, leaving you unable to understand why things have turned out this way. Please take a close look at what might be wrong with your dates.

Ikegaya from Universe Club’s Tokyo branch here with an answer. There are wonderful women in every class. Rather than focusing only on the Platinum and Black classes, please take a look at women in the other classes as well. Also, by carefully reading the club’s comments, you may be able to tell who is experienced and who isn’t. Please be sure to check those details closely as well.

I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. Going on dates like you’re working on an assembly line sounds horrifying, even just imagining it. Still, I feel like there are plenty of ways to make it work. On the other hand, if you can even get them to chuckle, you might be able to take control of the whole flow in one go.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I don’t think it has anything to do with the woman’s class. I think it’s because your date plans have become too predictable.

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. That may well be true.

I’m Kazu, a male member. https://universe-club.jp/staffblog/62271/ Apparently, Black-class women tend to receive more offers. I don’t think the issue is the woman’s class or the number of offers she’s received. It’s more likely that the dates you’re offering have become too routine and impersonal. Before blaming the women, try to focus on making the dates enjoyable for them.