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May 13, 2021 22:56
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer this one too.
It’s kind of like asking, “Are the people who are alive today enjoying life, or are they suffering but forcing themselves to keep going?”
Some people are enjoying themselves, while others are having a hard time but pushing through, I think.
What about you, though? Are you enjoying life right now, or are you struggling but forcing yourself to keep going?
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
I’m sure there are women who fool themselves into thinking they’re “having fun,” but I think they’re probably forcing themselves to some extent.
Personally, I believe every woman is forcing herself somewhere along the way.
For starters, you don’t just want to have sex with anyone—you want to choose your partner. Being unable to choose, or having limited options and being forced to compromise, is stressful in itself.
Try putting yourself in the opposite position: if a woman wanted to pay me an allowance to have sex with her, I’d find it kind of off-putting too. If I treated it strictly as work, I might think, “She’s a good customer,” but I’d still be forcing myself and pretending it was fine to some extent.
Other
I’m BB7, a male member.
Women who supposedly participate reluctantly come up on this message board quite often, but nearly all the women I’ve met in the past were enjoying themselves rather than doing it reluctantly.
There were probably about 10% who said they were only doing it reluctantly, but they all quit in no time.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I wonder. The female members I know seem to be having a reasonably good time.
I think it varies from person to person, but I suspect only a minority of women find it difficult and force themselves to continue.
Edit:
As BB7 mentioned, it seems that those who find it difficult tend to quit fairly quickly.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
The first six months to a year after starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) were challenging, but ever since I found a steady papa (a male supporter), life has been incredibly enjoyable.
That said, I feel this is also because my regular job is going well, thanks in part to my papa. I don’t think I’d feel as fulfilled if I relied on papa-katsu alone to make a living.
Other
I’m enjoying myself, but a lot of the women who come here to ask questions—or just vent—seem to be having a tough time. I suppose those who are enjoying themselves don’t really have anything to ask.
Marika
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m date◎yume, a male member.
It seems like my partner is having a good time, too (laughs).
Well,
I’m enjoying myself as well, though…