Tips
May 6, 2021 22:47
8 answers
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
Traveling takes time, effort, and money—but if another papa is covering the cost, I’d say that’s a good deal.
Personally, traveling sounds like a hassle, and going on a trip with someone I’m dating is actually difficult, so I’d be happy with that arrangement.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here.
> Somehow, I feel like the girl I’m seeing may be traveling with another guy.
I don’t think it really matters either way.
Even if she is traveling with someone else, as long as you’re still able to stay in touch every day, I think she still has feelings for you.
What more do you want from her?
If you want her exclusively, I think you should be prepared to offer an allowance that reflects that. The amount will vary from person to person.
Basically, I don’t think you should try to keep her to yourself. You’re not really prepared to take responsibility for her life, are you?
I think you simply want to keep her exclusively out of your own ego.
When you look at it that way, she gives you her undivided attention when you’re together, and you can still contact her every day when you’re apart.
I think that should be enough.
When you’re not together, she should be free to do whatever she wants.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
Sounds like you may be starting to develop a case of “being too much.” It shouldn’t matter what she’s doing elsewhere. If you start worrying about it, there’s no end to it, and I think that kind of attitude is what people dislike most. Maybe try making a new offer to take your mind off it.
It’s natural to fall for someone and focus on just one person, but I don’t think it’s good to cling to that too much.
Even though I know that, I still end up doing it myself（笑).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If you feel like she’s seeing someone else, then she probably is…
Or maybe she’s just tired of messaging every day…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I haven’t gone on any trips.
If you’re close enough to keep in touch every day, I feel like she’d tell you where she went without you even having to ask.
There’s no need to beat around the bush—just ask her directly.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Even though we keep in touch every day, why do I get the feeling that he’s traveling with another woman? Is it just the vibe…?
I think people who have families probably spend a lot of time with them. That’s how my papas are. I also spent some relaxing time at my parents’ home for the first time in a while. I talk and message with my papas every day.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Don’t worry about it. You should go on a trip too, questioner.
I don’t travel—I go around trying ramen shops in my neighborhood every day.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I keep in touch every day.
It’s fine for her to go wherever she wants with whoever she wants, isn’t it?
There’s no need to ask—don’t get too caught up in the details. If you really want to know, just ask, “Did you go on a trip with someone?”
Have confidence in yourself and take things at your own pace.