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May 6, 2021 22:18
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https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6780
After our walk (lol), he gave me ¥10,000 for transportation, but when I got home and opened the envelope, there was ¥20,000 inside.
As someone mentioned in the previous answers, do you think he was testing me?
Would I make a better impression by pretending to return ¥10,000 and saying, “You gave me too much”?
It’s honestly such a hassle when someone does something so unexpected.
6 answers
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I read your previous question too—you’re a tsundere character, huh? In that case, you should probably stick with that persona: complain about how much of a favor you’re doing, then give the 10,000 yen back.
You’ve been posting two questions a day lately, so I was starting to think, “Is this question pro running out of material?” But hey, I’m answering anyway because I figure this is how you make a living, so I guess it can’t be helped. (tsun tsun)
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Earlier, it was pretty much a case of “you’re both at fault,” but…
Questioner, you’re seriously falling behind…
Don’t let yourself get lapped…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Come to think of it, there was a woman who returned her allowance because we didn’t have sex. I was incredibly impressed by her, so when I couldn’t fit my schedule around her preferred date later on, I gave her spending money equal to the allowance.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think offering 10,000 yen for being 20 minutes late shows that he really doesn’t want the person asking this question to dislike him.
If it were me, I’d probably say cutely, “I’ll give it back (>_<).” I’d genuinely feel a little bad, too.
There have been many times when I told someone I didn’t need the money, and for some reason, my allowance ended up increasing. Some men seem to want to give it even more when you say you don’t need it. Writing it like this makes me sound pretty money-minded, though…
When something unexpected happens, it might actually be a chance to negotiate a higher allowance.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think a good way to respond this time would be:
“I was surprised by how much you gave me last time(笑) Thank you for your generosity!”
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well.
> Would it make me more likable if I pretended to return ¥10,000, saying, “You gave me too much”?
It would. (Laughs)
In fact, I think saying you’re going to return it would make you even more likable. Even if you did end up returning it, if it improved their impression of you, I feel like things would remain secure going forward.
> It’s honestly such a hassle when someone does something unexpected.
I think life would be boring if everything went exactly as planned. You could even say that the unexpected is what makes things fun.
It gives life a bit more excitement, which is a good thing.