I’m the one who asked about being out of touch for three weeks.
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I don’t know why he stopped contacting me either. However, he had previously told me that work was incredibly busy and that his father was in critical condition.
He’s probably married, so maybe his wife found out…
Even so, isn’t it awful to just stop contacting someone? (ToT)
I wish he’d at least said something.
I really liked him, so I’m extremely sad. I can’t forget him.
I liked him that much too, so I even met him without receiving an allowance. Maybe I was genuinely in love with him…
How can I let go and move on…?
This is really painful.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
If you truly can’t think of anything you did that might have caused this, perhaps he really has just become extremely busy, or something along those lines.
That said, since the cause doesn’t seem to be anything on your end, there may not be anything you can do. He might contact you again once things settle down.
Still, there’s no point in waiting around, so it may help to keep dating new men and stay busy enough that you don’t have to dwell on it.
If you’re currently taking a break from the service, I’d suggest reactivating your account and going on plenty of dates.
> I liked him too, so I kept seeing him even without an allowance. Maybe I really did have feelings for him…
I think seeing him without an allowance will only make things more painful for you. Even if you genuinely like someone, I think it’s better to receive your allowance going forward.
That way, the shock will be easier to handle if things suddenly come to an end.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I could’ve answered the previous question, but this one is newer, so I’ll reply here instead.
For whatever reason, I think your priority has probably dropped in that man’s eyes. If he had a reason he couldn’t meet but still considered you a high priority, he’d likely send some kind of reply. That said, since he’s still reading your messages, it doesn’t seem like he’s cut you off completely.
I think you should be honest and tell him how you feel. After that, maybe give him some space and reach out again in a few months just to see how things are going.
If you keep thinking about it nonstop, you’ll just drive yourself crazy, so try distracting yourself with something else. How about stress-eating? The cup yakisoba scene is especially hot right now.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Have you ever grown apart from someone you used to be close to after your circumstances changed because of going on to higher education, starting a job, or something similar? Since your papa is an adult, he may be overwhelmed with everything he has to deal with—his father, family relationships, work, and so on. In times like that, it’s only natural for a woman he met through a dating club to become less of a priority.
If you keep contacting him persistently, he may only grow to dislike you more, so for now, I suggest giving him some space. It might also be a good idea to meet other men.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I didn’t include this in my response to the earlier question, but the first words that came to mind when I read it were:
“Please, just stop.”
Especially if there’s a chance their spouse may have found out.
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I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
Since this is a relationship based on mutual benefits, it’s only natural for it to fade away once either person no longer feels those benefits or has a need for it.
Unlike ordinary dating or romance, parting without any lingering complications is also an unspoken rule.
And no matter how good you may think the relationship is, the other person may feel completely differently. As long as they still see some benefit, though, people at these clubs can keep up the act almost perfectly.
Sometimes, a sudden goodbye simply can’t be helped. They may not be able to tell you why they ended things—or there may not be much of a reason beyond no longer needing the arrangement.
There’s no point dwelling on it. Try to forget as much as possible; sometimes, only a new encounter can heal you.
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