Last week, a papa I’ve met several times showed up late to our meeting.
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About 20 minutes late. He usually arrives early.
That day, I was going along with his request for a walk in the park(笑) in exchange for a small allowance—basically just transportation costs—but I had a packed schedule afterward, so I was annoyed. Do you think the fact that someone who’s almost never late was late means he’s starting to lose interest in me?
He’d been frequently inviting me to do things privately, which was a hassle, but since I have a lot of expenses piling up right now, I couldn’t help but go along with it because I want to keep him around as a source of money.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I wonder if the person asking this question is being tested right now. Maybe the man also wants to end things, but is reluctantly continuing because you won’t let him cut ties.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here with an answer.
If he’s usually early, I think something probably came up this time.
Things like this happen, so I hope you can be understanding and give him the benefit of the doubt.
> Does the fact that someone who rarely runs late was late mean he’s losing interest in me?
It’s impossible to tell from just this one occasion.
If he starts being late repeatedly after this, there’s a possibility that his feelings are cooling off.
But if this was just a one-time thing, I don’t think that’s the case.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If your papa (a male supporter) has invited you out privately several times, he may genuinely like you. Did he apologize for being late? If his apology seemed sincere, you might want to forgive him.
Just keep smiling and enjoy his company without letting on that you see him as a source of money.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since you said he’s someone who’s rarely late, I figured it might have just been a one-off.
However, after reading the last part of your question—where you say, “He kept asking me out privately, which was a hassle, but since I have a lot of expenses coming up, I wanted to keep him around as a source of money, so I went along with it reluctantly”—I wonder if he may have lost interest too.
Relationships are mirrors. If that’s how you feel about him, there’s a good chance he feels much the same way about you.
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