Papas, have you ever felt that meeting a PJ was fate? Everything about them was your type, you clicked on every level, and the timing of your meeting felt just right… Since we met here, does that mean it can only be a casual encounter?
I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve hardly ever felt that sense of destiny, even with boyfriends—in fact, I don’t really believe in fate—so I’ve never felt it in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), either.
That said, there are a few papa (male supporters) I feel very compatible with. We’ve built that compatibility over a long period of time, so I sometimes think it’s the result of both of us consistently putting in the effort.
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
Since I’m married, I may develop feelings for someone, but I never fall for them seriously. Besides, these relationships don’t last in the first place ^^;
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I’m Papahikoki, a male member with more marriages than Don Juan.
I’ve had many fateful encounters that led to marriage, engagement, and living together.
When I first joined the club, I thought there was no way I’d have that kind of encounter here.
But you really can find possibilities anywhere…
One encounter has been just as special as those I’ve had before:
> Someone who’s completely my type, someone I’m compatible with in every way, and meeting at the perfect time.
And there’s another where, rather than being perfectly compatible in every way, we have a wonderful connection that lets us talk openly about absolutely anything.
I’m looking forward to seeing this relationship through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) lasting a long time too.
Considering that I met them among so many women, the compatibility we’ve developed is better than anything I’ve experienced before—in every way except for romantic feelings.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m seeing someone who’s such a great match for me that I doubt I’ll ever meet someone this compatible again—not that she’s “everything” or “my whole world,” exactly.
After meeting dozens of people, I’m impressed that you really can come across someone with this kind of chemistry.
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