I’m a BB7 male member.
If you explain your reasons properly, apologize sincerely, and turn her down politely, I don’t think she’ll lash out unless there’s some serious issue.
That’s assuming she’s a normal, reasonable person, of course.
By the way, the women I see regularly don’t complain even if we go for a second round, and they don’t ask for an increase in their allowance either.
I’m only mentioning this because it would be annoying if more women started insisting that “a second round means an extra charge!” is the standard, or saying things like “You should…” and “Make it a rule!”
There are all kinds of women, so I think it’s best to see each person according to her individual circumstances.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> He won’t pay any additional allowance.
Did you clearly discuss the terms before entering into an adult relationship (intimate)?
If the conversation was just something like:
“How about five after this?”
“Sure.”
then I think it’s understandable that he assumed you were okay with doing multiple rounds, so complaining afterward seems a bit unreasonable.
If you clearly said something like, “Just one round,” when discussing the terms, but there ended up being more than one, then I can understand how you feel.
> We’re supposed to meet tomorrow, but if I cancel by honestly explaining the reason, do you think he’ll get angry?
When did you make those plans? If it was last week or so, canceling the day before would probably count as a last-minute cancellation, so his disappointment would be understandable.
If you were going to say something, I think you should have done so right after making the plans.
Since it’s so last-minute this time, I think you should tell him, “It’s too sudden, so I’m asking for just one round. If you can’t agree to that, I won’t be able to meet tomorrow.”
If one round is something you’d be comfortable with, then given how sudden this is, I think it’s reasonable to stick to that condition this time.
After that, either don’t make any more plans with him, or even if you do, you could send him a LINE message later that same day saying, “Actually, I won’t be able to see you anymore,” and end things.
That said, do men really not realize that they’ll be dropped if the allowance is too low? I feel like the men who think the allowance doesn’t matter are often the ones offering the lowest amounts.
If he had offered a more reasonable allowance, she might not have complained even if there had been two rounds...
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since some adult entertainment services allow unlimited ejaculations during the allotted time, I didn’t think, “Is this basically a sex service?”
I think it’s fine to cancel if you ask for an additional allowance and the man isn’t willing to agree to it.
