Tips May 1, 2021 14:14

I’m the male member who asked the question below.

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https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6380 Thank you all for your answers. After she was 1.5 hours late, we had dinner and I accompanied her shopping for high-end designer brands. She was clearly hinting that she wanted me to buy something, but I didn’t. At the hotel, she went into the time-saving mode Taro mentioned, started taking photos of cosmetics in the room, and then became intimate, only to suddenly say she wanted to leave early. We ended things on a rather incomplete note. Some time later, she contacted me to apologize and said she wanted to see me again, so I decided to meet her one last time. However, she is now already an hour late for our meeting. This time, I even padded the time by an hour and made a restaurant reservation, but she has managed to exceed even that. One commenter, Maezawa, said I should also fudge the time and arrive late, but personally, I don’t want to be late even once in ten meetings, so I always arrive at the agreed time. I’m writing this question while making use of the waiting time. Today, she first messaged to say she would be 30 minutes late as usual, and then contacted me again to say she would be even later. In a way, I’m impressed that she maintains the same attitude despite being the one who asked to see me. I’ve been practicing anger management both before and now, so I’m calm. I’m supposed to phrase this as a question, but do you think she’ll try to leave early again afterward? Sorry for making you listen to my rant while I kill time. For reference, she’s a platinum office lady in her 30s.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. Personally, if he’s more than 30 minutes late without contacting me, I’d leave. I’d pay the bill without worrying about the cost and cancel the arrangement. If the food had already been prepared, I’d probably just eat alone.
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I’m Aya, a female member. She’s in her 30s and still acts like that…!? I assumed she was a college-age woman who was still immature in the working world. The person asking this question is definitely being taken advantage of. I would absolutely hate that.
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On the contrary, I have to wonder why you’d want to meet a woman who goes that far. Does she have enough appeal to outweigh all those downsides? I’m guessing the next woman you make an offer to will look like an angel by comparison. She’ll be lucky! You already know the answer to your question, don’t you? You left early, right? Matsurika
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. Hmm... I guess it depends on her excuse for being late. If it’s a funny one, I might consider continuing things. The longer I have to wait, the more I look forward to hearing her reason. That said, I have a strong feeling this woman’s excuse is going to be absolutely uninteresting. You might as well leave in a fit of rage, no?
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Meg
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. Amen…
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. That’s unfortunate. Still, I have to wonder why you decided to meet him again after what happened. Was it to practice your anger management? I think you’ll be heading home early.
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