I'm pretty simple, so sex with a man who gives me a generous allowance and treats me to upscale dinners and luxury hotels feels amazing. I get turned on, want to spend more time with him, and feel relaxed enough to be innocent and honest around him.
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Once we've decided when to meet, I put pressure on myself to look beautiful, so I get serious about dieting, skincare, and things like that before we meet.
With the opposite type of man, I don't even want him kissing me. Even if I tell myself it's a transactional relationship and endure it for the money, my body doesn't lie—I don't get turned on at all, and I don't feel as responsive physically.
Even after deciding to meet, I have no motivation. I end up binge-eating the day before a date, feel like I can't be bothered on the day itself, and cut corners with my outfit and makeup.
As a result, men of the higher caliber described above praise both my appearance and personality, and our relationships somehow tend to last longer.
With the latter type, though...
I'm registered with Univa for the money, so even when I meet a low-paying papa (a male supporter)—from his allowance and profile details to everything else—I put up with it, thinking that every little bit adds up.
I'm in Kansai, and I feel like there's a difference in the caliber of papas even among those in the same black class.
I want to treat every man with the same level of hospitality by keeping things strictly transactional for the money, but I hate that I'm like this.
What can I do to feel more physically responsive with every man?
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The part where you write about how “tight” she is makes me feel like a man is pretending to be a woman.
Is pretending to be a woman online becoming popular lately...?
For that matter, how would a woman herself judge whether she’s “tight” or not? Saying something is good or bad implies comparing it to something, so how exactly would she make that comparison?
It raises all kinds of questions.
Well, giving you the benefit of the doubt, let’s assume that it feels like her tightness changes depending on her partner.
Then, regarding:
> With the opposite type of man, even being kissed is unpleasant, and although I put up with it because it’s for the money, my body is honest and I don’t get aroused at all.
It sounds like you’ve already reached your own conclusion.
I feel like the simple solution is not to date anyone you have to force yourself to put up with. Whether you’d rather continue seeing someone because small allowances add up, or choose otherwise, is ultimately up to you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I feel like I can kind of understand that too, lol.
In the end, I’ve only continued seeing papas who treat me well. When you meet someone this way and he’s married, I think the amount of money he gives inevitably becomes linked to how much affection and consideration he shows.
But as you continue seeing each other for a long time, the feeling of wanting more and more fades away, and it becomes a peaceful thought of, “I just hope this happiness can last as long as possible.”
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I’m BB7, a male member.
> I want to treat every man with the same level of hospitality, since I’ve made peace with the fact that I’m doing this for the money.
Isn’t it more like this: because it’s purely about the money, you’re nice and tight—a flood warning—with a generous papa, but all loose and under a dry-spell advisory with a low-paying papa??
Anyway, good luck.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Wouldn’t it be best to only date high-ranking men? That way, I think you’d become tighter down there for every man you meet.
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I’m Takei, a staff member.
I think it may be a matter of mindset. If you correct those habits, you may no longer feel that sense of guilt.
(For example, stop overeating the day before and make sure to do your makeup properly.)
We’re only human, so we all unconsciously let our guard down or get more motivated depending on what’s coming up the next day. Don’t blame yourself for that.
As long as you’ve properly done what you need to do, I think you’ll be able to enjoy your date with peace of mind. That feeling will likely come across to the other person as well.
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Seattle here.
I also prefer someone who’s a little looser, since I can move more vigorously.
If you chew on the poor man’s rod, it might swell up and become just right.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Can you really tell how tight you are yourself? Your body is surprisingly money-minded, isn’t it?
Wouldn’t you be tighter with every man if you felt grateful toward every man? (lol)
Maybe the problem is that you binge-eat the day before a date with some men, or feel like you can’t be bothered on the day and don’t put in the effort.
Even when my partner says she can’t be bothered, she still gets herself properly ready and goes to her first meetings.
And when a man she meets turns out to be awful and leaves her upset, she sometimes calls me practically in tears.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Everyone has their own preferences, so wouldn’t it be nice if we could find someone compatible and mutually devoted…?
Well, perhaps time will sort things out.
It seems you still haven’t met a stress-free papa yet. Hopefully, one day you’ll settle down and realize what you were really looking for.
> A high allowance, plus a luxury dinner and luxury hotel
Doesn’t that sound pretty much the same as an escort service?? You might be better suited to doing it as a job—you’d get to experience a much more luxurious lifestyle. You could even post photos, and the men would compete to keep upgrading their offers. You might even find yourself getting tighter and tighter…
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