The other day, I asked about this situation:

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I met a man for the first time recently, and he said, “I had a great time today! When can we meet again?” He suggested a few dates, but I didn’t know my schedule until I went to work, so we parted ways after I said, “I’ll get back to you.” Once I found out which days I had off, I messaged him saying I was off on one of those dates, but all I got in reply was a sticker—not one saying “Got it!” or anything like that, but more of a “Hmm, I see!” sticker. Do you think that means he doesn’t intend to meet again? Since then, I haven’t heard from him at all. I’m thinking of contacting him myself, but what would be the best way to word the LINE message? I hate being slowly ghosted or having things just fizzle out naturally. Would it be a bad idea to send something like, “If you’re not interested in me and don’t plan to see me again, I’d appreciate it if you could just be honest and tell me”? Or should I wait a little longer? Or do you think I shouldn’t contact him myself? I’d appreciate hearing your opinions.

Answer 1

I’m a BB7 male member. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with simply asking something like, “How have things been since then? How does [date] work for you?” If she still leaves you on read, then there’s not much you can do. If a regular guy wants to meet, he’ll usually take some kind of action.

Answer 2

Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. Send a message saying, “I’m off on [date].” If they reply with a stamp like, “Hmm, I see!” then follow up with: “Is it okay to assume we’ll be able to meet on [date]? I’m looking forward to it.” I think their response should give you a sense of where things stand. Even if you don’t want things to just fade out, sometimes that’s what happens. Rather than worrying that you’ll be the one getting cut off and wanting to end things first, I think it’s best to do what you can—and if it still naturally fades out, accept that there’s nothing you can do.

Answer 3

I’m Kazu, a male member. “I’d appreciate it if you could be honest with me if you don’t like me and don’t intend to see me again.” I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sending that. That said, how the man feels when he receives it will vary from person to person.

Answer 4

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Oh! I believe they proposed an initial plan in their previous reply—didn’t you contact them? I think you should try reaching out. They may reply. If they don’t, we can think about what to do next.

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