Tips Apr 28, 2021 12:42

After signing up, I worry about whether I’ll get any offers. Once I do, I worry about whether they’ll keep seeing me. If they stop, I worry about whether I’ll find someone else. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) really does come with constant anxiety… How do you all cope with these feelings?

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I’m BB7, a male member. Once you get used to it, it’s not so bad to face those anxieties and worries and really sit with them. You gradually come to feel that they’re part of life—and quietly realize, “Ah, I’m alive.”
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I’m voting for Aya!
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I’m Aya, a female member. Regarding the question, “How does everyone manage to get through it emotionally?”—I can’t really say, since it depends on each person’s mental strength. For me, whether it’s work or anything else, if I prepare as thoroughly as possible in advance, then even if I fail, I can stay positive: “I guess my potential just wasn’t quite there yet. I’ll accept that this time, and try even harder next time.” Since I did my best in my own way, I don’t feel like I have any regrets. I approached papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) the same way. If things didn’t work out after I had presented the best version of myself, I figured there was nothing I could do about it. Also, once you get used to exchanging messages and what happens after you receive an offer, your anxiety should gradually ease.
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Between work, your private life outside of your papa (whether that’s a boyfriend, friends, hobbies, or housework), and several papas, you’ll be so busy juggling everything that you won’t have time to worry. I’m jealous you have so much free time.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. For people who worry, it seems like all they find are things to worry about—things that go exactly as they feared. Is the world unfair?? For people who rejoice, there’s always something to rejoice about. For people who are grateful, there’s always something to be grateful for. Just like you feel like giving candy to a child who shows their happiness honestly, surely God feels the same way…
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Isn’t that how everything in life is? You worry about whether you’ll find a boyfriend, whether the relationship will last, whether you’ll be able to get married—or even whether you should. And once you’re married, you worry about getting divorced. You worry about whether you’ll find a job, whether your salary will go up, whether you’ll get a bonus, and whether the company will go under. You worry about whether you’ll land work, and whether the company will go under. Life is a constant battle with anxiety.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer too. You never know what life has in store. Que sera, sera.
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