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Apr 27, 2021 17:18
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Other
I’m BB7, a male member.
Some women may do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because they didn’t receive enough love from their parents, but in most cases, I don’t think the two are related.
“Women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) = lacking parental love = went down the wrong path.”
That’s such a boring, stereotypical way of thinking—like something you’d hear from a schoolteacher.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
In my case, I’m actually grateful to have been raised in a warm, loving family by parents with respectable careers. But during my first or second year as a working adult, I went through something traumatic. After a few other things happened, I eventually found my way into this line of work.
When I was completely broken, I believe the self-esteem my parents had given me kept me from reaching the point of taking my own life or harming someone else.
I caused my parents a lot of worry, but thanks to my papa (a male supporter), I’ve become even healthier. Now I have enough emotional, physical, and financial room to treat my grandparents to trips. Once the pandemic is over, I’m hoping to go to Guam with them again.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I don’t think there’s necessarily anything wrong with the parent-child dynamic, but I do think both the men and women involved are people who aren’t fully satisfied with their lives.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) aren’t necessarily taking the wrong path!
That condescending attitude just makes you look small-minded! lol
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
> Don’t you think a lot of people who do papa-katsu have troubled relationships with their parents?
No, I don’t.
I suspect you’d find just as many among people who don’t do papa-katsu.
Besides, I don’t think we can really know without collecting proper statistics.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
If men and women alike had everything they needed, they wouldn’t lose their way.
The fact that you wrote here means you’re one of our kind.
Other
If you’d offered to all 8,000 and also dated all 8,000 women who don’t do papa-katsu—same region, age range, education level, and so on—and reached that conclusion, I might give your opinion some consideration.
But even if you’ve made as many offers as Kazu, you’re probably talking about only around 100 women in the demographic you personally prefer, right?
This makes me feel even sicker than the question from the girl warning that some old guy has bad breath.
Sorry you grew into an adult who went astray because you weren’t raised properly. At least do a decent job raising your own daughter, papa-katsu old man.
Marika