I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
> Personally, if we’re going to go for a second round, I’d like him to do it right away.
Generally speaking, he won’t be ready again without about a 30-minute break, so going right away may be difficult.
That said, if you’re good at oral, you could start about five minutes later, and he might be ready again around five minutes after that. So using oral to shorten the waiting time is one option.
I also seem to remember another respondent mentioning injections down there, though apparently if the dosage isn’t adjusted properly, it can stay erect the whole time and become quite a problem.
You could bring that up and say something like, “Let’s go continuously next time.”
Still, it might be a little frightening if he stayed erect even after climaxing, and it could possibly turn into a much longer session than before.
With that in mind, I think you could agree to a second round.
As for your fundamental concern:
> It would be different if we went out for dinner or shopping.
I feel you should clearly communicate that to him.
Something like, “Could you take me out for dinner first next time? Somewhere a little nicer, too.”
I suggest saying it beforehand because with this kind of man, any promise to do it afterward may end up being broken. So I think it would be better to establish a dinner-then-hotel flow.
If he says dinner is impossible, only then could you make it a trade-off: “If you won’t take me out for dinner, I’ll have to decline the second round.”
However, you shouldn’t approach it antagonistically. I think the key is to frame it as a request.
You’re actually willing to agree to a second round, but you really want to go out for dinner, so you’re only making it a condition for that reason. I think negotiating from that positive stance would work well.
I’m Takei, one of the female staff members.
Try asking, “We usually go two rounds—would you be up for four?”
If he says, “Two rounds is my limit,” how about replying, “One round is my limit”?
I’m Uehara, one of the female staff members.
Sorry—I found myself thinking, “Since he finishes quickly, maybe we could at least go for a second round…”
> If there are dinner dates or shopping dates as well, that’s one thing, but…
I think you should try telling him this directly.
You could also try making an effort to become more interested in H yourself. Though I guess that may be difficult…
If he finishes quickly, doesn’t that mean the actual time is pretty short?
Honestly, you’d think they could put up with it for that long, but if you’re not okay with it, you’ll have to tell your partner directly.
Marika
I’m Kazu, a male member.
You could simply say, “I’m not into sex, so I don’t want to meet a second time.”
