I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I signed up out of curiosity. I’m the type who tries anything that interests me, so I applied without giving it much thought and answered as “a man in his 30s, a new member.” Later, I realized that everyone else was using a handle. But it felt embarrassing to suddenly switch to one halfway through.
So I deliberately applied to become a column writer under the handle “Flag Maker,” and from then on, I started using “Flag Maker” as my respondent name too.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I’m in the same boat as Marika. After reading this site for a while, I felt like writing something myself.
But once I actually started posting, I often felt like I’d really overdone it and regretted it the next day. I also found myself worrying a lot about the other respondents’ answers and everyone’s reactions to them, wondering what stance I should take when writing. After thinking it over, this is what I ended up with（笑）
It’s also nice that answering questions lets me put my own thoughts into words. I’d thought about subtle issues like how to treat women and allowances before, but writing answers has helped me organize my thoughts in my own way.
That said, my reason for joining a dating club was to meet attractive women and enjoy fulfilling intimate experiences, so posting here doesn’t fulfill that goal at all. Ultimately, I hope to meet someone like that, start living a fulfilling life, and stop posting here. So if you stop seeing me in the Q&A box, please assume that I’ve found happiness. And if I start answering again, I’d appreciate it if you’d continue to watch over me warmly（笑）
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
What prompted me was wanting to say, “When it’s time to part ways, let’s have the kind of relationship where we can say goodbye properly instead of blocking or ignoring each other!”
When I joined, the branch manager told me, “A relationship must be mutually beneficial.”
And I feel the same way.
If the relationship had truly been beneficial for both people, there would be no reason to block or ignore each other…
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I became a respondent because, even though people offered a variety of answers, none of them reflected what I agreed with, and I kept feeling frustrated, thinking, “That’s not how it is!”
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
When I was considering joining, I found this anonymous Q&A box really interesting and helpful. That inspired me to get involved. Since Universe’s events weren’t being held because of COVID, I was also looking for a way to connect with other members.
I also thought that being part of the community might lead to something interesting. In fact, Mac and I once made an offer to the same woman, which gave us a chance to get acquainted. I’ve also had many other interesting experiences that probably wouldn’t have happened if I’d simply remained an ordinary male member.
Since I was applying to become a respondent despite having only been a member for a short time, I felt I had to build up experience quickly. I’m also the type of person who goes all in once I decide to do something, so I made offers like crazy. As I continued spending money, I also built connections with staff at branches other than my own, which I think has led to even more interesting things happening.
That’s how—and why—I became a respondent.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I decided to apply because I’ve noticed there haven’t been many female respondents lately.
I usually work with advertising and writing in a broad sense, so perhaps, in my private time, it helps me unwind to simply put words down in a matter-of-fact way, without thinking about clients or entertainment value at all.
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