Someone I was recently offered told me, “At this club, it’s normal for the other guys not to use protection. I use protection, so you won’t find a better guy than me. You’re better off choosing me.” But the way he said it made me feel like there might be something behind it.
This content is machine-translated.
Do you think I should trust him?
I’m new to clubs and have only ever used apps before. Sorry if this is a silly question, but I’d appreciate your advice.
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
If you’ve been meeting people through apps up to now, I think you should trust your instinct that there may be something hidden beneath the surface.
Someone who says things like that may indeed have an ulterior motive.
That said, there’s no need to put all your trust in him—you could simply date multiple men and try seeing him as one of them.
That way, you may come to understand what he was hiding.
But if you feel it would be too late by then, trust your instincts and don’t get involved with him.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Taro, a male member.
It’s honestly pretty funny (lol).
So, for that male member, wearing a condom is what gives him an edge over the others? Is that really all he has to offer?
You’d normally wear a condom anyway. It would be a mistake to believe what he says.
Still, he’s a lovable idiot. He seems to follow the rules, so why not let him continue? He could be a source of income for the time being.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If you’ve been active on the app, you’re not a beginner anymore, senpai.
You should assume that anyone who says things like “What about the others?” or “Everyone else does it” is the worst.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
After reading the first couple of lines of your question, my first thought was, “What a loser!”
Apparently, some men use condoms and some don’t. Some will even try to go ahead without putting one on, without saying anything. Protecting yourself is important in any situation, so it’s important to clearly say no to anything you’re not comfortable with.
But if you ask me what’s normal, I’d say it’s normal for a man to have condoms ready and put one on without being asked. And he shouldn’t make comments implying that wearing a condom is somehow worth extra money. Don’t believe them.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
