I don’t feel like I can go back to being a normal girl. I’m a college student. Papas tend to be quick-witted because they’ve been successful, they never run out of things to talk about, and I enjoy talking with them more than with guys my own age. Since they have more experience, they’re also better and gentler in bed, constantly telling me how cute I am, which satisfies my need for validation. I feel like I don’t even need a boyfriend anymore. In fact, even when I get a boyfriend my age, the only thing he has over papas is better looks. He doesn’t have money or as much knowledge (though it depends on the person), he may not be good in bed, and he certainly won’t go out of his way to go down on me. So even when I start dating someone, it never lasts long. I don’t have the slightest romantic feelings for papas, but I can’t be satisfied with ordinary guys my age.
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Can papa-katsu girls have a normal romantic relationship? Or do all of you completely separate the men you meet through papa-katsu from the men in your private lives?
I’m Aya, a female member.
I keep the men I meet through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) completely separate from the men in my private life.
I actually enjoy getting money, gifts, and praise from men, so I’m able to pursue both romance and papa-katsu at the same time.
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Masazawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
You can solve this by changing your perspective just a little.
Why not get yourself an older boyfriend? An age-gap marriage is also an option.
Please let go of the assumption that dating an older man automatically means papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
If you have him properly meet your parents, he won’t pursue anything improper.
Even with a significant age gap, you can have a genuine relationship with marriage in mind.
Oh, I can’t say whether you’ll be able to meet at Universal Studios, so I think you should choose the meeting place carefully.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Those women who are saying they love their boyfriends of the same generation right now will, in most cases, eventually find someone suitable to marry and settle down. By the time you turn 30, look around you and you’ll probably find that none—or maybe only one—of your friends are married to the boyfriends they currently say they love.
Romance doesn’t have some timeless, universal value.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
People who take part in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are an incredibly, incredibly small minority—both men and women.
In other words, they’re rare—sorry, I mean valuable. You could even say they’re exceptional, depending on how you look at it (or inferior, if you take a less charitable view).
Even people your own age may hold out a little hope when they meet an attractive man, but more often than not, even someone’s appearance is something they have to put up with. It’s normal for things not to go as hoped, leaving them with nothing but complaints.
Eventually, after gaining a few years of good experience, I think the day will come when they start to feel it’s time to move on—and awaken to being a normal person.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
It sounds like your papa treats you well, but you don’t have any romantic feelings for him at all. In that case, you’re putting things in different pockets, so I think you should be able to pursue a normal romantic relationship just fine (lol).
Things aren’t working only because you’re judging things that belong in different pockets by the same standards.
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