Tips
Apr 23, 2021 21:27
4 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the company office.
In the past, a man kept telling a woman to order whatever she wanted. She didn’t actually want to eat that much—especially since she was dieting—but she forced herself to order and eat more.
After the date, the feedback said: “She was awful—she kept ordering things on her own without restraint.”
Of course, when we checked with the woman, we found out that was what had happened.
The same applies to drinks this time: you shouldn’t order directly from the restaurant staff. Even if the man says it’s okay to order whatever you like, it’s best to stay cautious.
Normally, if you ask, “May I order a drink?” the man will probably ask, “Would you like the same as me?” and order it for you.
Still, there can be unexpected traps, so it’s worth being a little careful. Basically, have the man order it for you.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
Once your drink is empty, leave it that way for about five minutes and see what happens. If he doesn’t say or do anything, he’s a man who lacks consideration, so take one point off his score.
After you’ve finished evaluating him, ask, “Excuse me, may I have another drink?”
If he doesn’t agree to that, he’s simply out of the question. Just use common sense—you’ll be fine.
After that, focus on ending things as quickly as possible, getting your transportation expenses covered, and leaving without having to file a complaint with the club.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
You should feel free to ask. Actually, I’d prefer it if you didn’t worry about being too considerate and just ordered what you wanted—especially when it comes to alcohol.
Some men don’t drink much, so even if we’re keeping an eye on how much the woman has left, we often miss the right moment to order another round. That’s why I try to encourage her to order as soon as possible.
After going out together four or five times, you’ll both know what the other person likes to order and how they prefer to order it, so from then on, I think you can just order whatever you like.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Everyone has their own pace, so even if the other person’s glass isn’t empty, I think it’s fine to ask, “May I have a glass of ○○, please?”
Some people might get upset, but they’d be far too stingy to be worth dating anyway, so you might as well let them get upset on their own.