I’m a woman considering papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the first time.
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After registering an account, I matched with one man.
On his profile, he says that he previously had a “relationship” with someone from another site and that he’s looking for “around ¥100,000 a month, about three times.”
I’m worried that, if he knows I’m new to this, he might make unreasonable demands or try to shortchange me.
When he says “relationship,” does he mean an adult relationship (intimate)?
Does “three times” generally mean dinner only (no intimacy), or is the only way to know to ask him directly (without making him look down on me)?
Sorry, I really don’t know the first thing about this.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> Does “this relationship” refer to what people generally call an adult relationship?
Yes, I believe it refers to an adult relationship (intimate).
Men are generally looking for an adult relationship (intimate).
So unless the woman clearly says she’s only interested in dinner, if the details aren’t specified, it will probably mean an adult relationship (intimate).
I assume you understand what an adult relationship (intimate) means now, but it’s similar to asking something like, “Does an adult relationship mean just having dinner?”
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
That’s correct—I’m referring to an adult relationship (intimate).
More specifically, since I said around ¥100,000 a month for about three meetings, the terms can only be less than that. For example, ¥30,000 per meeting three times a month, or ¥100,000 a month at about once a week. “Moderate” is vague, so if you’re negotiating the terms, it’s better to be clear and specific.
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