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Apr 22, 2021 01:34
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
> There’s something I think would suit her.
At this point, it really sounds like it’s something she doesn’t actually want to wear.
Rather than giving her something you want to see her wear, I think she’d be happier if you gave her something she actually wants.
If you received a surprise gift of a collar like the one a bulldog wears because someone thought it would suit you, would you be happy? Would you wear it every time you went out?
Some people might be pleased, but most would probably wonder, “Why a collar?”
> Is it better to ask what she wants rather than surprise her with a gift?
I think that would be better.
If you really want to surprise her, you could ask what she wants first and then surprise her by giving it to her later. That seems like the better approach.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
For men, gift cards are the best option.
I was really touched when my cute housekeeper gave me a hug on my birthday. I don’t need anything else.
Other
I think it’s best to give both: what you want to give and what the woman wants.
Jasmine
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I’ve never surprised anyone, and I wouldn’t want to be surprised either, haha.
Try putting yourself in the other person’s shoes. You’d be thinking, “What do you even know about me?”
That said, if we were close enough that you could confidently say I’d say yes, then maybe it would be okay.
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Another short question…
With women, surprises can make them several times happier, but you’re also being tested. Even pretending to be happy about something boring can be pretty painful. If you’d have to force it, it’s probably safer to just ask honestly.
With men, they’ve usually already bought whatever they want, so it’s difficult to surprise them when there’s nothing in particular they need. But if you ask, they’ll just say they don’t want anything…