Even after looking at their profiles, is it still impossible to tell whether a female member is the kind of person described in the question below? Do they put on an act in front of the staff? I’m struggling with delayed ejaculation, so I don’t want to make an offer to the wrong person.
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the president’s office.
> I’m worried about being a slow finisher.
Well, as I’ve said, this isn’t a brothel.
You should either address that concern at a brothel or deal with it yourself.
At a dating club, I think you should focus more on enjoying the connection between two people. I understand that everyone has different preferences. Enjoy the conversation, enjoy the intimate side as well—in my view, a dating club is about enjoying the entire relationship with your partner.
You may find someone who’s willing to listen to your concerns about being a slow finisher. But if that concern comes first and foremost, people can hardly be blamed for thinking you’ve misunderstood what a dating club is about.
I know I’m repeating myself, but I feel that if you enjoy spending time with another person as a human being, you’ll find it many times more enjoyable than it is now.
That said, if you absolutely want to avoid the issue, you could write on your profile:
“I’m currently concerned about being a slow finisher, so if that’s something you dislike, please don’t send me an offer.”
You could also mention it in your message to women when making an offer.
That way, more than half of them will probably decline, so you may get what you’re hoping for.
However, you might also miss out on your destined partner, so I wouldn’t really recommend it—but it is one option.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Basically, I don’t really know. I feel like I have some idea, but when I look at it objectively, I think I’m probably just imagining it.
I think the chances of it being that extreme are pretty low, so you should give it a try without holding back. Compatibility matters quite a bit, so you might find the answer by trying different things.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
Why not turn delayed ejaculation to your advantage and make her climax several times?
Losing your erection can be improved with lower-body training. Squats and walking are recommended.
Wear her out so completely that she won’t even have the energy or mental space to think, “This old guy is gross.”
She may hate you even more, but if you’re going to be disliked either way, aim to be like Duke Togo.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Regarding your question about whether you can know beforehand, I get the impression that you have the same somewhat immature expectations as many young people today—wanting to be told everything in advance, feeling uneasy without a manual, and avoiding anything that might lead to failure.
Most women find it painful when a man they’re incompatible with takes a long time to finish. Being intimate with someone you dislike for an extended period is generally difficult.
It can also cause physical pain, and depending on your condition, you may be hurt more easily than a man.
But when you’re compatible with someone, minor things often don’t bother you as much.
So I’m not sure it’s reasonable to say, before even building a relationship with a woman, “I want a girl who won’t say anything that upsets me and will accept everything.” I think it all comes down to compatibility.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
No, no—you’ve got it wrong. Most women are basically kind. Even if you make a few mistakes, they’ll usually forgive you if you admit fault, show consideration for the other person, and make an effort. Put extremely simply, if you keep trying until they forgive you, they’ll eventually forgive you.
Men, on the other hand, often won’t forgive you. Men are harder to deal with.
People dislike you because you don’t admit fault, don’t show consideration, and don’t make any effort.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male club member.
When I first joined the club, I also struggled with losing my erection and taking too long to finish, so I completely understand how you feel.
Unfortunately, though, you should probably assume that every woman feels the same way.
Try to shake off that pressure. Otherwise, you won’t be able to fully enjoy yourself.
And if you can’t finish, taking a break and trying again is out of the question—it’s the worst… You won’t be able to build a mutually satisfying relationship that way.
I used to worry about my own shortcomings with losing my erection and taking too long to finish, but the club offered more good encounters than I expected. After meeting a woman I was truly compatible with, all my worries and concerns completely disappeared.
I recommend believing in the possibility of a good encounter and making an effort to improve. A whole new world will open up for you.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I really couldn’t say. Out of the dozens of women I’ve made offers to and met, I can only think of about 1% who might be thinking that way, so I assume they put on an act in public.
You’re probably only going to encounter someone like that once in a blue moon, so if it does happen, just accept that these things happen and move on.
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