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Apr 21, 2021 20:52
6 answers
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
If someone catches my interest, I always watch her video. I don’t mind if she seems a little unfriendly—she might just be nervous. On the other hand, if she speaks smoothly and cheerfully, or seems perfectly shy, I start to suspect there’s something darker going on beneath the surface. I feel like you gradually get better at telling after seriously reviewing profiles, making offers, meeting in person, and repeating the process. Though maybe that’s just my imagination.
Women in their 30s who are Type B feel more like an impossible game（笑). But when I actually checked, that wasn’t really the case either. That was just my imagination too.
In the end, it’s all just in my head…（笑笑）
Other
I’m Marika, and those videos are honestly so awful that I really wish people wouldn’t use them as a reference.
I just want to say, please don’t judge me based on something like that.
Sigh.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If she seemed aloof, I wouldn’t make her an offer.
Everyone is just as friendly in person as they are in their videos. However, no one has ever been more personable than they were in their video.
Even if they’re nervous, I believe they’re making every effort to be as friendly and engaging as possible on camera.
That video is their best.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I make offers after imagining the worst possible date I can think of. If it turns out to be awful, I can smoke a cigarette on the way home and think, “Yep, just as expected, haha.” And if it’s not so bad, I can think, “That was actually better than I expected.”
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
If the staff comments describe her as someone who seems fun and outgoing, I think she was probably just nervous in the video, so you may still enjoy meeting her if you make an offer.
If there’s no such comment, she may act much the same way in person as she did in the video.
That said, you might actually find her aloofness appealing.
Since you’re hesitating, she’s probably your type. I think you’ll have fewer regrets if you meet her and see for yourself how a date with someone so reserved goes.
If she disappears from the members’ page before you meet her, there’s a good chance you’ll regret it.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t even play the videos, but if I like the way she looks, I’ll make an offer anyway. I’ll think about the rest after we meet. That was me until last fall.
Now, I just add her to my favorites and quietly close the page.