↓I was surprised to see how many people only meet once based on the question below! I don’t receive many offers, but I continue seeing most of the men I meet. I’m always grateful, but I feel even more so now.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Regarding the series of allowance-related questions from a little while ago and afterward: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6514 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6517 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6565 Taro wrote: > I don’t think people fall for someone that easily. You might think a woman is attractive based on her looks, but we’re meeting in this kind of setting, so of course we become intimate. To be honest, at first it’s just sexual desire and curiosity. For women, it’s about the money, right? It goes both ways. But a lot of people seem to think that once the terms are agreed on and they become intimate, that’s the end goal. If that’s all it is, though, it becomes no different from going to a brothel. I agree with him. At the offer stage, it’s purely curiosity. Once you meet, it happens all the time that the woman is different from the image you had based on her profile—sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way. This overlaps with Chikuwa’s answer, but unless the conversation is genuinely enjoyable, or I discover something exceptional about her in bed, or find some other outstanding quality, I won’t feel like meeting her again. I already have a woman I’m seeing on a continuing basis, so unless I see something that makes me think she could eventually reach that level as we continue meeting and grow closer, I won’t be particularly motivated to see her again. I feel the same way as Chikuwa about messages. Most women message me after we part following the first date, but in my case, the content matters quite a bit. I need to feel that she enjoyed sharing that time with me just as much as I did, and that she isn’t suggesting we meet again solely for the allowance. Come to think of it, there was also a question about whether women are allowed to invite men out: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6555 After the first date, I believe that women—especially Type B women—have the initiative. Everyone sends a message afterward saying, “Thank you, I had a great time,” but that’s probably just a polite gesture. So if a woman is interested, it would help if she showed that in a way that goes beyond mere politeness. The clearest way would be to take the initiative toward making plans to meet again. Women who are good at this decide when to meet next before parting ways. That way, the date is already secured, and once I’ve made a promise, I do my best to protect that time and make sure nothing else gets scheduled. Even if things don’t work out through the message after the date, I think it’s possible to make up for it by chatting casually on LINE. A woman I can have ordinary, low-key conversations with on LINE once or twice a week also seems like someone I’m compatible with. To sum up, at first, one of these three things—conversation, intimacy, or LINE—needs to clear the bar. For a continuing relationship, it’s important to keep exceeding that threshold through the combined strength of all three. I’m sorry that my conclusion is the same as Chikuwa’s, but since it seems the questioner is continuing to see most men anyway, this was probably telling you something you already knew.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here. I think sometimes things end after the first meeting because of a woman’s personality, chemistry, and so on. Even if a man likes her appearance in her photos before making an offer, they may meet and find that they didn’t have much fun together, or that the intimate side wasn’t quite right. In cases like that, he may decide not to meet again. In that sense, I imagine you have a good personality, and that the adult relationship also feels good from the man’s perspective. Offers are usually based almost entirely on appearance, but I think continuing an arrangement depends heavily on what’s on the inside.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. In a nutshell, it comes down to differences in values. If she invites me to meet again, I’m quite likely to see her again. But if she doesn’t contact me, I almost never reach out myself, so it usually ends after the first meeting. Even if she does contact me, there won’t be a next time if I didn’t have fun, our terms didn’t match, or I didn’t feel satisfied.

I’m Taro, a male member. I agree with Chikuwa! Whether she sees you as an ATM or as a human being makes a huge difference. We have feelings too!

I’m a BB7 male member. I want to minimize wasted time as much as possible, so I only want to continue seeing women I genuinely like. There are women I can’t picture having an ongoing intimate relationship with after meeting and talking for the first time. There are also women I’m intimate with once and then feel that we’re not compatible. As a result, I end up saying goodbye after just one meeting with about half of them. In my experience, if a woman doesn’t click with me when we first meet, a second or third meeting won’t change that.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I’m with Chikuwa-san on this one! Dating through an exclusive club is really difficult. But I totally understand how the male members feel, too（笑).

I’m Chikuwa, a male member. Universe has thousands of female members, so I imagine most male members are checking out multiple women. That means unless you stand out well above average among the women they meet, it’s probably going to be a first-meeting-only situation. With Universe, you rarely have a bad experience meeting someone, so there’s no reason not to meet someone new. The women who don’t end up being one-time meetings probably have something exceptional about them, or occasionally send a casual message. Messages in particular may be important. If you’re just a papa (a male supporter) who provides money, there’s no real reason for him to keep seeing you—there are plenty of other beautiful women waiting. Maybe the reason the person asking the question has so many ongoing arrangements is that they treat their papas as people?