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Do male respondents avoid making offers to single mothers?

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How would you feel if you found out later that she was a single mother?
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. It doesn’t bother me at all. Even if I found out later, I’d probably just think, “Oh, I see. Raising a child on your own must make things difficult with all the time constraints, huh?” Everyone has their own circumstances.
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the President’s Office as well. Apparently, some men avoid single mothers when their children are still very young. They say they don’t like having plans canceled at the last minute because the child suddenly develops a fever after they start seeing each other. Also, single mothers are often mistaken for married women. So if someone lists their available dating times as daytime only, I feel it might be better to emphasize that they’re actually single. Some men won’t make an offer because they assume a woman is married. It seems like a shame to be mistaken for a married woman when you’re actually single.
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I’m a BB7 male member. When a woman is around 30 or older, I make an offer assuming she might be single. If she’s my type, it doesn’t bother me, but I’ll confirm with the staff before making the offer. I’d rather she tell me from the start than hide it or lie about it. There may be issues like a child’s illness or time restrictions, so I prefer to know everything upfront before getting involved.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. It depends on how old the child is. If they’re very young, it might be difficult to arrange things, so I might pass. I’d probably think, “You should’ve told me from the start,” if I found out later. But if we’d already gotten close by then, I wouldn’t really mind.
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