I’m a woman in my late 30s and receive almost no offers.

I’m Maezawa from the executive office, and I’ll answer as well. > If I were a Platinum male member, I’d probably offer to a more reliable Platinum-class woman, since I’d be investing my time and effort anyway. It seems you still don’t quite understand how men think. Men want to meet women they’re personally attracted to, so they don’t pay much attention to the classes assigned by the staff. The main thing they care about is that they can’t offer to women in a class above their own. So Platinum men will look through the Platinum women first, and if they don’t find anyone they like, they’ll check the other classes too. As for Black male members, I’m not sure whether it’s because they haven’t found any Standard women they liked in the past, but many of them don’t look below Gold. However, if they’ve ever found a woman they liked in the Standard class, they’ll probably continue checking it from then on. > If possible, I’d like to be promoted to Platinum. If you’re barely receiving any offers as a Gold woman, I feel like you might stop receiving offers altogether if you move up to Platinum. If you want more offers, I think the opposite would be better. Moving from Gold down to Standard may increase your chances of receiving offers. > Do Platinum and Black male members also check Gold women? Most of them do. It’s quite common for Black and Platinum male members to offer to Gold women.

I’m a BB7 male member. When I make an offer, I don’t pay attention to a woman’s class. If she’s my type, I’ll make an offer even if she’s in G or S. Even if you say you want to receive offers, I’m sorry to say that it may be quite difficult to become a popular woman in her late 30s who gets flooded with offers. That said, what men look for in women in their 20s differs from what they look for in women in their 30s. If you highlight qualities that only a woman in her late 30s can offer, I think there’s definitely some demand. I’m not sure what you mean by “working on yourself,” but… If I were to name what men might look for in a woman in her late 30s, I’d say maternal warmth, composure, thoughtfulness, the ability to enjoy the relationship without making everything about money, kindness, intensity, and sensuality. Why not try highlighting those qualities?

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. Once you move up to Platinum or Black, you’ll actually receive fewer offers. I think upgrading your class is mainly for when you’re overwhelmed by getting too many offers. Men can make offers to 100 women and narrow it down to one. So, as the woman receiving them, I think it’s important to make the two or three offers you receive as worthwhile as possible. After five dates, you should probably assume that the staff can no longer recommend you—or that the club no longer has much use for you. In reality, unless you’re truly exceptional, I doubt they’ll recommend you again. > Because it was obvious that all you cared about was getting a large allowance. It’s honestly shocking when someone doesn’t even remember what you just talked about—or clearly has no intention of remembering it.

I’m Chikuwa, a male member. I’m Platinum, but I look at everyone from Standard through Black. It’s true that a conventionally beautiful woman would never be in Standard, but whether I make an offer isn’t based solely on how beautiful she is. Someone who isn’t conventionally attractive might still be beautiful to me. If there were a truly stunning woman in Black, I’d consider making an offer, but the membership fee is just too high, so I wouldn’t make an offer for someone who’s merely attractive. Gold has lots of cute women who appeal to the general public, so I doubt there are any male members who don’t look at Gold. If you only look at Platinum and above, there are far fewer female members, too. My impression is: - Black — I have no idea what the criteria are. By my standards, there are lots of women here who would rank Gold or lower. - Platinum — This feels like where the beautiful women belong. - Gold — This feels like where the cute women belong. - Standard — It doesn’t feel like conventionally beautiful women belong here, but there are still plenty of attractive women. That’s more or less how I see it. It also seems like being older or Type A lowers the ranking by one level.

Apparently, women who really stand out in the Gold class are called “Lucky Gold,” and offers come pouring in because men think, “I can’t believe someone this wonderful is in Gold!” In that case, I suppose it’s possible to be promoted to Platinum. But if you aren’t receiving any offers in Gold, I don’t think you’d normally be promoted to Platinum. It might happen if a reshoot made you look like a completely different person, though. And even if you push yourself and manage to reach Platinum, I don’t think there are really many benefits. As an aside, I learned that I had been downgraded from Platinum to Standard when I switched from Platinum to Secret upon joining, all because a male member once brought in a printout of my profile page. He may have received a serious warning, but I don’t know. Based on my experience, the number of offers and your class aren’t really that closely related. I received offers when I was Platinum, and continued to receive them afterward as well. When I was Secret, I only received offers from men who had added me to their favorites before I became Secret. Later, I left Secret, made my profile public with my face blurred, and I’m currently taking a break. Marika I realize I didn’t really answer the question, so here’s my answer: Take an objective look at yourself and think carefully about whether you’re someone men would want to talk to and be intimate with. In terms of conversation starters, hobbies and your occupation can help. As for appearance, things like your makeup, smile, figure, and clothing all matter. It seems that having few offers doesn’t necessarily mean having none at all, so you might want to ask the men who contacted you what they liked about you.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m registered in the Black class because I’d hate to miss out on women I couldn’t otherwise make offers to, but I also check the Standard class. I don’t care about class, so I never filter women by it. I don’t expect my personal preferences to always match those of the staff member who interviewed them. In fact, my most recent offer was to a Standard woman. From a man’s perspective, “more certain” probably means the relationship type. For example, if there are women classified as B and C, I’d make an offer to the C woman because she’s the safer bet. The setting fees for Gold and Standard women are ridiculously low, so I actually feel bad for the club. As a little bonus, I’ll add some advice. The Standard woman I mentioned in this answer and I parted ways after dinner only. There were several reasons, but one was that she was overly concerned about her class, and it was obvious she was focused on getting more offers through the dating club and earning more allowance. I’m not criticizing her for wanting more offers and more allowance—that’s perfectly natural. However, the man who made the offer isn’t club staff or a scout. I think her first priority should be figuring out how to turn the one offer in front of her into the allowance she receives. When you’re standing in front of a single tree, you should be thinking about how to cut down that tree, not about the entire forest. (笑) And yet, there are a great many women who can’t do that. You may be worrying about your class right now, but when you’re receiving almost no offers, I think the first thing to consider is how to turn that valuable offer into the allowance you’ll actually receive. You exchanged contact information at least, right? By the way, if I don’t particularly enjoy the meal on a first date, I find it too much trouble, so I end things after dinner only—and I don’t even exchange LINE contacts. So far, there have been women I parted ways with without exchanging LINE in about 10% of all the offers I’ve made.