Tips Apr 20, 2021 01:02

This is similar to a question from a little while ago, but the other day I unexpectedly ran into another woman I’m seeing while I was at a restaurant with one of my companions, and it was incredibly awkward. It was even worse because I was there for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), while she was there privately...汗 Has anyone else had a similar experience? How did you handle it?

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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. If they’re both women you’re dating, I don’t think there’s really much to worry about. The only reason it would be a problem is if you’re lying to them—for example, saying that you only have one partner. If that’s the case, then I suppose it could be difficult, but I think the first step is simply to stop telling those kinds of lies. Once you do that, I don’t think you’ll have anything to worry about.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. If you want to clear things up, it’s simple: just choose one or the other. There is a downside to cutting off a woman you didn’t really need to let go of, but if you tell the woman you continue seeing, “I ended things with her! I’m really sorry!” it might earn you a few brownie points. Or maybe not? LOL
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
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I’m in Seattle. If it were me, I’d probably suggest that the three or four of us go out for dinner sometime. Maybe everyone could become friends.
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I’m Taro, a male member. You just shouldn’t say things like, “You’re the only one for me” (lol). If you don’t say that, she’ll probably just respond with, “Oh, you’re really putting in the effort,” and leave it at that. That kind of thing actually happens? I go on a fair number of dates too, but I’ve never experienced anything like that.
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