I’m sorry to ask this here, but I have nowhere else to turn, so I wanted to ask for advice.
I’d really appreciate any wisdom you can share for reference.
I’m a married stay-at-home mother in my 30s, with two young children.
My husband has finally lost his job because of COVID-19.
He’s become exhausted and somewhat depressed.
I’d like to go out and work in his place, but I don’t have any qualifications or particular skills. Before our savings run out, I’d like to earn enough for our living expenses as well as tuition for studying toward a qualification that would provide a stable income—although I haven’t decided what qualification to pursue yet.
I don’t have any exceptional talents, but thankfully, I was scouted by the entertainment industry in the past, and even now, people sometimes approach me when I’m walking alone because of my appearance.
However, I’m already in my mid-30s.
I can barely drink alcohol, so working in the nightlife industry isn’t really an option. I also considered adult entertainment, but I have sensitive skin and tend to bleed easily internally, so I can’t see several people in one day.
Since I have young children, I can’t work very long hours. For the time being, should I get a part-time job, study alongside it, and register here as well? (Even if I register, I absolutely wouldn’t come across as being money-minded.) Or are there any other options?
Do you have any recommendations for qualifications, jobs, or unconventional ways to earn money?
I’ll only consider your suggestions as a reference, so I’d be grateful for any advice, even if it’s just casual.
Thank you in advance.
I’m Chikuwa, a male member.
If you’re asking here, I assume you want to know about Universe or the adult entertainment industry, right?
Universe isn’t really a source of stable income, so while you still have some financial breathing room, you could apply, choose Type D, and mention that you’re open to an adult relationship (intimate). If you’re attractive, I think you’d probably receive a reasonable number of offers. And if you register but don’t get any offers, you can always switch to another option right away, so why not give it a try?
As for the adult entertainment industry, there are various softer options. If you research them carefully and make an effort to look after your customers and promote yourself, I think you could make decent money. Maybe the best approach would be to commit to it for a few years and save up.
Don’t fall for the naive idea that getting a qualification automatically means you’ll earn money. Most qualifications like that take several years of studying or attending school.
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This is Seattle, right?
You mean welfare assistance. If your husband can get a mental disability certificate, you’ll probably qualify.
Depression never really goes away. If possible, you should get divorced. As a single mother with no assets, getting welfare is easy.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
If you’re considering working in the nightlife industry but can’t drink alcohol, men’s esthetics would be a good option for you.
Men who can drink tend to go into nightlife jobs, while those who can’t often turn to men’s esthetics, so women who don’t drink also end up moving over from the nightlife scene.
There’s demand from customers of all age groups, too, so it could be a great fit.
As long as you choose the right establishment, it isn’t an adult entertainment job, so there’s no need to worry. There’s less sexual harassment than in the nightlife industry, no drunk customers, and you won’t have to suffer through cigarette smoke. You also won’t be forced to make conversation.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think your age will be an issue.
If you’re considering registering with a dating club, I think you should do that before locking yourself into a fixed schedule with a part-time job.
That said, what concerns me is whether your spouse will become suspicious if you suddenly start having access to a substantial amount of money after being a full-time homemaker. The same goes for working in the adult entertainment industry. I think you should consider what you’ll do if they find out.
As for qualifications, it really depends on the person and their aptitudes, so I can’t say for sure. But if you’re confident in your looks, maybe something in the beauty industry would suit you. In any case, getting a qualification takes both time and money, so I wouldn’t recommend it if you’re in a tight spot financially. I think it would be better to find a promising job first, then get a qualification to increase your income in that field.
P.S.
When it comes to scouts, I feel like only one in ten, if that, is a decent person.
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Start by applying for welfare and going to the Hello Work employment office with your husband.
When you visit your local government office, there are various forms of assistance available for people in difficult circumstances, so ask about everything in detail and apply for whatever you qualify for. Being uninformed about these matters is no excuse.
Getting qualifications while working and raising two young children will require tremendous determination and effort.
I’ve heard that you can work in the nightlife industry even if you don’t drink. There are also options in the adult-entertainment industry that don’t involve intercourse.
You may have the looks to be popular in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but women in their mid-30s or older who are struggling financially may be avoided once their circumstances become known.
I think it would be better to establish a stable living situation through other means, even if the income is low, and treat papa-katsu as just a little extra.
Marika
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