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Apr 19, 2021 01:13
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Also, why do men dislike women like that?
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I’m Chikuwa, a male member.
I’m fine with professionals, but unless she has extraordinarily stunning looks that are exactly my type, I’d rather go to a hostess club than Universe.
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I feel like Taro’s answer says it all...
A professional papa-katsu woman would be someone whose primary source of income is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I think the reason they’re generally disliked by men is that their comments often come with a condescending attitude toward the men they see. To me, dating should involve mutual respect. Treating someone merely as a source of money, with no respect at all, says a lot about them as a person.
Of course, I’m equally put off by men who speak or act as though the women they see are objects. I think anyone who can’t respect their partner as a fellow human being—regardless of gender—is bound to be frowned upon.
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Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m voting for Taro!
Hmm, Paper Airplane’s opinion is pretty insightful too (lol).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
I think there are two types of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) pros.
The first are the so-called papa-katsu pros who are exceptionally good at making money.
The second are people who are gifted at finding their ideal papa (a male supporter).
They may seem similar, but they’re actually quite different.
That said, to anyone other than their ideal papa, the second type may look just like the first.
So what’s the difference? The first type keeps the same style no matter whom they meet or what kind of papa they encounter. They don’t find any real joy or happiness in papa-katsu.
The second type, however, can change through a truly good encounter—and can choose to focus only on those worthwhile connections.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
When I say “pros,” I mean women who make a living solely through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or who see men purely as sources of money.
There’s nothing wrong with working in the adult entertainment or hostessing industries. A dating club is a different kind of game: you’re willing to provide financial support, but you’re also looking for a relationship where you genuinely like the other person. So it’s a different category. But when women like that are in a dating club, I think they’re scumbags. Working in adult entertainment or hostessing can actually be pretty tough. Avoiding that and choosing an easier place to run a scam business instead—that’s what bothers me. There’s nothing inherently right or wrong about what they do, but people who aren’t prepared to take responsibility for it are scumbags.
Also, paying a woman to have a relationship with her and giving money to support a woman you genuinely care about may look the same from the outside, but I think they’re completely different. A lot of people don’t understand that—including men.