If she experiences pain, do you still invite her on another date? From a woman’s perspective, would it be better not to? There was a response to my previous question saying that shorter women tend to be narrower as well, and I have to admit that seems true—I’ve mostly made offers to petite women. Every now and then, one of them experiences pain.
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As far as condom sizes go, I use the largest size, but if she still experiences pain despite using lotion and doing everything I can, there’s not much else I can do. I feel bad, so I’ve stopped inviting her out again.
Some people say things can become more comfortable after doing it a few times, but in your case, if she experiences pain, do you take that as a sign that you’re sexually incompatible?
I’m not particularly tall myself, so I tend to make offers to petite women.
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I’m the person who replied that petite girls are my favorite because they’re tighter down there.
That said, I can’t afford to lose such a wonderful girl. Since I want to continue seeing her, I take the utmost care to make sure it doesn’t hurt.
I use XL-size condoms, so I also check in by asking, “Are you okay? Does it hurt?” I pay close attention to her facial expressions and the way she moves her hips, trying to understand how she feels.
If I didn’t show any consideration and only caused her pain, I’m sure she’d cut me off as her papa.
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I’m in Seattle.
If it looks painful, I’ll stop immediately. I wouldn’t ask for the allowance back or anything like that.
If we enjoy talking, I’d ask them to continue with a dinner-only (no intimacy) arrangement. Some people actually do this and travel together without having sex.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If you want to have sex, stop trying to play it cool and just ask her. The real question is how to make it comfortable and pleasurable, right? That’s what you should focus on completely.
There may be all kinds of opinions, but I think it’s very simple: if it hurts, it’s because the woman is tensing up. When she’s genuinely aroused, she relaxes and opens up, so it won’t hurt. I don’t know how big yours is, but that’s the opening a baby comes through.
Use lubricant as needed, but the important thing is whether you can make her feel completely safe and create an atmosphere where she believes there’s nothing but pleasure waiting for her.
If that sounds like too much trouble, just stop and move on to someone else. Though you may end up with the same problem.
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