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Apr 15, 2021 13:40
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I don’t think I’d feel like I’d been used and abandoned, but I’d probably be a little disappointed, wondering if I just didn’t meet the level they were looking for.
太郎
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Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
If you’ve paid the agreed allowance, it shouldn’t be considered a hit-and-run. Still, if your attitude suddenly changes afterward and you abruptly lose interest, she may feel like she’s been used and discarded, which can leave a bad taste.
There’s no point in forcing yourself to give her false hope, but at the very least, treat her with gratitude and courtesy until you part ways.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t see it that way, but I do feel that he wasn’t particularly interested in me.
茉莉花
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Other
I don’t think he just used me for sex and disappeared, but I might wonder if he simply didn’t enjoy having sex with me.
Marika
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
What was the farewell like when you parted ways for the last time? I think it may depend on his attitude at that moment.
If it were me, I’d be utterly heartbroken at the thought of it ending after just one meeting...
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Unless you’ve set a specific date and time for your next meeting, I don’t think it’s fair to accuse someone of “using and ditching” you when they did give you the agreed-upon allowance.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s no official definition of “hit it and quit it,” and some people may see it that way. Still, I think they’re very much in the minority.