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Apr 15, 2021 13:40
7 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I don’t think I’d feel like I’d been used and abandoned, but I’d probably be a little disappointed, wondering if I just didn’t meet the level they were looking for.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
If you’ve paid the agreed allowance, it shouldn’t be considered a hit-and-run. Still, if your attitude suddenly changes afterward and you abruptly lose interest, she may feel like she’s been used and discarded, which can leave a bad taste.
There’s no point in forcing yourself to give her false hope, but at the very least, treat her with gratitude and courtesy until you part ways.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t see it that way, but I do feel that he wasn’t particularly interested in me.
Other
I don’t think he just used me for sex and disappeared, but I might wonder if he simply didn’t enjoy having sex with me.
Marika
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
What was the farewell like when you parted ways for the last time? I think it may depend on his attitude at that moment.
If it were me, I’d be utterly heartbroken at the thought of it ending after just one meeting...
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Unless you’ve set a specific date and time for your next meeting, I don’t think it’s fair to accuse someone of “using and ditching” you when they did give you the agreed-upon allowance.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s no official definition of “hit it and quit it,” and some people may see it that way. Still, I think they’re very much in the minority.