It’s nice that you’re treated so well, like being carried in someone’s arms… I’m starting to feel sad.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Does carrying someone bridal-style mean that he truly cares about her? Setting that aside, an ordinary man wouldn’t enter a woman’s room and have sex with her without her permission, without even taking a shower, or do it right there on the floor. If he did, it would be because a bad man had looked down on her. In other words, if you didn’t give permission, then this bad man was taking you lightly. I don’t know whether you were after the allowance or something else, but allowing yourself to be looked down on by a man like that means you aren’t behaving like a respectable woman. Isn’t that what Papuwa-san is trying to say? If he’s always on his phone without any pillow talk, then I get the feeling he doesn’t see you as a dating partner at all, but as a prostitute. It may also mean that he doesn’t find you interesting to talk to. In any case, saying nothing and continuing to allow this is practically confirming that you’re a woman he can treat carelessly. I think you should act like a respectable woman: either block him immediately, or lecture him by asking what he thinks he’s doing trying to have sex without even taking a shower.

Maezawa from the president’s office here. It’s hard to tell from the details alone whether he’s treating you carelessly. He might simply be so into you that he wants to get started as soon as you enter the room. It’s also possible that your sex appeal is just incredibly strong. That said, you should speak up about anything you’re uncomfortable with. It’s perfectly fine to say, “If you’re not going to take a shower, I’m leaving.” You may also be able to judge by the allowance. If he offers more than you asked for, that’s a sign he likes you. A female respondent once wrote that there’s a clear difference in the quality of men between Dating Type B and Type C. As a trial, you could switch to Dating Type B and write in your profile comments something like, “I chose B because I’d like to meet someone who will treat me well.” That might increase your chances of meeting men who will genuinely value you.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. “Touching her phone and ignoring me without any pillow talk” is definitely not okay. Other than that, though, these are things someone might also do with a person they truly love, so I feel it may be too soon to conclude that she was simply being careless… You wouldn’t want to do it without showering unless you really liked the person. And doing it right there on the floor could also mean that she was so turned on by her partner that she just got carried away… As for using her phone, if you’d been seeing each other for a long time and were very comfortable with each other, maybe it shouldn’t necessarily be taken so negatively… Wait, though. A girl you’d want to be intimate with even without showering, someone who becomes so dear to you that you both end up that way—that’s maybe one in a hundred, if that… In other words, it would be incredibly, incredibly rare and special, to the point where there’s only that one person. I don’t know whether the person you’re seeing is like that, though…

I’m Taro, a male member. First of all, I’m not sure being carried in someone’s arms really proves that they’ll treat you well（笑）。 But judging from what you wrote afterward, they do sound pretty careless. If you can’t find another source of financial support, I suppose it’s fine to keep him around for now—but you should probably look for other options too. The important thing is to keep experimenting without losing sight of the kind of arrangement you want. If you stay persistent, you’ll definitely get there. The world isn’t actually all that difficult, you know. Even if the odds are low, if you keep trying, eventually you’ll hit the jackpot. Of course, it’s better to be a decent person, but honestly, even if you aren’t, you can still get results if you stay active. That’s a universal truth. So keep at it. But try to be a little more decent, too.