I’m a woman in my 20s (a university student) considering an interview. I’d appreciate your advice!
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As for my motivation for joining:
Wanting money : wanting to flirt with attractive older gentlemen = about 3:7.
Even when I say “attractive older gentlemen,” I don’t mean someone who looks like an actor, but rather someone who is gentlemanly, well-groomed, and not extremely overweight. (Being tall would be ideal///)
However, after reading through the Q&A section, I’ve started wondering whether it’s rare to meet that kind of gentleman, and whether many female members simply put up with less-than-ideal partners.
Would a dating club be unsuitable for someone with my motivations?
I have thought, “Why not just look for someone I like on an app?” But I’m hesitant because I’m afraid to show my face on an app where anyone can sign up, and I worry that there may be even more people looking to waste your time or scam you than there are at a club.
I once had an adult relationship with a man about 20 years older than me who was somewhat wealthy after he approached me. (There was no direct exchange of money, but he took me out for meals and shopping.) I’d like to have that kind of experience again…
I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m sure you’ll meet someone. I’ve also found several attractive, mature papas (male supporters), and I’m very happy with how things are going. Good luck!
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I’m Chikuwa, a male member.
There are all kinds of dating sites, so I’d suggest signing up with one that seems trustworthy and well-run. You might find more options by searching for “marriage-hunting sites.” Unfortunately, every site has a certain number of problematic men.
If you’re specifically considering Universe Club, the advantages are that you get paid, the management is reliable, and men generally won’t pressure you to get married. The downsides are that you can’t choose men yourself, you might not receive any offers at all, and it can cause a lot of problems if your identity is exposed.
https://universe-club.jp/ladiesvoice/
You can get a sense of things by reading the female members’ date reviews here. It seems that, for the most part, a fair number of women are able to enjoy satisfactory dates.
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I’m Kazu, a male club member.
From both participating in the club and answering questions here, I’ve come to feel that women who are emotionally composed are more likely to meet men who are equally composed. By “composed,” I don’t mean financially comfortable, but mentally and emotionally at ease.
At least among the women I’ve offered to meet and spoken with, I get the impression that the chance of a decent woman ending up meeting a terrible man is under 10%—probably even below 5%. It often makes me think that relationships really are a mirror.
So if you go into your first date hoping to meet a good man rather than simply wanting money, I feel you’re more likely to meet someone worthwhile. Another important thing is having the courage to say no to anything you don’t want, instead of just going along with it.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Oh, you might be pretty close to my type, haha.
I’m in my late 30s to early 40s, nearly 180 cm tall, and my abs are somewhat defined.
I’m not confident about my looks at all, though ^^;
Actually, around 70% of male members are in their 30s or 40s, so you might find someone.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
I’m not sure what level of “handsome older gentleman” you have in mind, but if you mean someone who isn’t necessarily actor-level attractive, but is gentlemanly, well-groomed, and not extremely overweight, then there are plenty of men like that on Universe, so I think you’ll be fine.
You often hear stories about terrible men in the Q&A section, but when you consider that there’s really no reason to ask a question about a good man, it may be best to assume that the odds of encountering a terrible man are around 50%.
That may sound like a lot, but in other words, the other half should be perfectly fine.
The difficult part is whether you’ll be able to meet someone who matches your preferences.
Unfortunately, you won’t know that until you actually join. I think it would be a good idea to choose Dating Type B and look for men who appeal to you.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Want money: Want to flirt with a handsome older guy = 3:7
Haha（笑）
What’s wrong with that?
I’ve often wondered whether there are quite a few reasonably attractive older guys among the men in this community.
Even among the people answering questions here, Mac seems to resemble Masaharu Fukuyama, and apparently I’m supposed to look like Takashi Sorimachi. Kamihikoki seems to be bald, but he’s rich and passionate—apparently the kind of older guy younger women would like.
As for the other answerers, none of them—apart from me—seem to openly claim that they’re handsome. Still, I imagine most of them probably look more or less like your average middle-aged guy.
The only thing that sets them apart, perhaps just a little, is that they’re all curious and horny（笑)
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I think there’s a pretty good chance—probably over 80%—that you can have an experience like that again.
> Being gentlemanly and well-groomed, and not extremely overweight
I think most men meet those minimum standards. Women who receive lots of offers, in particular, seem to meet mostly wonderful men. That may also be because the women themselves are wonderful, which brings out the best in the men…
> Dade ◎ Yume, “Kimo-buta Hagero” is a pseudonym I use to avoid being identified. But if that’s how you see me, then it’s clearly doing its job.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
At that level, I’d say there are quite a few around. You’re basically looking for someone gentlemanly (who follows the rules and has good manners), well-groomed, and not overweight, right?
It’s probably best to take things you read online with a grain of salt. Looking at the questions in the Q&A box might make you feel discouraged, but there are probably several respondents who fit the bill. The requirements for being a respondent aren’t that you have to be a handsome older man. Apparently, you can be removed if female members complain about you, but that’s how many people there are even with those standards.
By the way, respondents aren’t allowed to lie, so all the answers are true. Questions, on the other hand, aren’t subject to that restriction. That’s an important point.
That said, there may be quite a few slightly unusual people here. Though I can already hear someone saying, “That’s you,” haha.
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