The only papa (male supporter) I’ve been seeing for about six months suddenly emailed me saying he’d like us to continue without an allowance. I don’t know how to reply.
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Is he genuinely hoping to continue without an allowance, or is he testing me? I’d like to understand what’s going through his mind.
Of course, not receiving an allowance would be very difficult for me, but I also feel sad at the thought of ending things and never seeing him again.
I’d appreciate some advice on how I should respond.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> My only papa
Maybe you let that person know somehow that they were your only papa.
That may be why they’re taking advantage of your situation. Even if you don’t have anyone else, you shouldn’t say so outright. It’s better to leave them unsure whether you do or not; otherwise, they’ll stop feeling any pressure.
It doesn’t seem like this person is trying to discuss or negotiate things, so I think they intend to end things. But it also seems like they’re thinking, “Maybe I can get something for free,” which is why this is happening.
I think it would be best not to respond at all.
Forget the past and look for a new papa.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Even if you’re her only papa, isn’t six months still way too soon? I’ve been giving my one and only papa-katsu girl an allowance even after three years（笑).
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If it were me, I’d first ask, “??? What’s wrong? Did something happen?”
The key is to be gentle and reply in a way that shows you’re concerned about the client, so you don’t make a client who’s reluctant to pay feel even worse.
Start by asking what’s going on. Depending on how he responds, you can decide how to proceed.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If you’re not willing to pay and don’t mind never seeing them again, just leave them on read. That’s really all you need to do.
After two or three days, they’ll probably send you something on their own. Just ignore that too.
If cutting them off completely would be a problem, meet them while pretending nothing was ever exchanged and acting like you don’t know anything.
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I’m Kaz, a male member.
It may not be clear to outsiders, but let’s try to look at this logically.
Seriously hoping for no allowance: a jerk who refuses to pay an allowance in a dating-club arrangement
Testing you: a jerk who tests people by making provocative comments
Either way, he’s a jerk. Personally, I don’t think he’s worth dealing with.
That said, since he’s your only papa (a male supporter), if you’re willing to give him a little more time, why not reply, “That’s awful of you to test me like that”?
> Mac
> I think the best thing to do is read it and leave him on read without replying.
True. Leaving him on read sounds best. I’m with Mac.
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