How should I deal with a papa whose food preferences don’t match mine?

Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. > The meals my papa (a male supporter) takes me out for are always heavy on carbohydrates and calories, so I’m not very happy because my diet ends up being unbalanced. Maybe because low-carb diets have become so popular lately, carbohydrates are being treated like the bad guy. But when it comes to starving because there’s no food, carbohydrates, protein, and fat all seem like important nutrients to me. And as for your diet being “unbalanced”... unless you’re living together and eating all three meals together every day, I don’t understand how occasionally eating such meals would unbalance your nutrition. On top of that, you then say you can’t enjoy the food, shifting the topic from nutrition to whether it tastes good or not, and then later to bedtime. The whole thing is incoherent. Ultimately, it just sounds like the questioner is unhappy because things aren’t going the way she wants. You say your tastes in food don’t match, but if your actual conversations are like this too, I imagine most people would have no idea what you’re trying to say. If there’s something you want to eat, just tell him, “I’d like to eat this.”

I’m Kazu, a male member. Why not order room service? Alternatively, you could buy something from the department store’s basement food hall and bring it to the hotel. That way, you can each choose what you like and enjoy a meal together. You could simply say that, because of COVID, you’d prefer somewhere that isn’t crowded.

I’m Papercraft, a male member. It’s so unrealistic that I almost wonder whether it’s meant to be funny. Ideally, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) should be with someone you’d naturally go on dinner dates with if you met under ordinary circumstances. That way, it doesn’t feel painful or forced. Would you still want to have dinner with her if there were no allowance? (In reality, of course, she should accept the allowance.) I don’t think anyone can keep forcing themselves for long. If he isn’t willing to take her to places she wants to go, then there’s hardly any reason for them to meet. If talking it over doesn’t help, I think she’ll only have to keep putting up with more and more. Men want to give an allowance when they see a woman enjoying herself, so this has turned into a contradictory kind of “endurance activity.”

I’m Taro, a male member. Yeah, there are definitely people like that. Even outside papa-katsu, I once had a troublesome older boss just like that. He had a belly that looked like he was about seven months pregnant. I remember thinking, “Don’t drag me into this,” but I needed the job, so I put up with it and kept working with him. I guess you just have to maintain some balance when you’re not meeting them. Exercise, cut back on carbs in your everyday meals, things like that. You’re not together 24/7, so there are still opportunities. Then, if it gets too intrusive and you feel like you’re being pushed into a corner, you can decide whether to cut things off. So, in conclusion, make sure you have a steady inflow of offers—especially to keep your options open. Otherwise, the moment you cut someone off, your finances could become seriously strained（笑）