I’m a female member currently on a leave of absence.
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The reason I took a break is that I met a male member I’ve been able to trust more than anyone before, and he wanted me to take a break.
But honestly, I can’t help wondering every day whether it’s really okay to limit myself to just one person like this.
My papa (a male supporter) probably wants me to focus exclusively on him, but from a woman’s perspective, there’s nothing but risk in doing that.
To be honest, I believe that “men are assets, and women are beautiful.” So I feel it would be a waste to devote the prime of my life to my current papa.
Could you please advise me on how to give my papa a convincing reason for restarting my Universe membership after my leave of absence?
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think you should quietly start again and simply hide your profile from that person. Whether it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or anything else, relying on a single client is a high-risk strategy. To spread out the risk, it’s better to have multiple clients.
A three- or four-legged chair is far more stable than a one-legged chair, right? That’s what I do too, and it helps me stay emotionally stable as well. Good luck.
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Maezawa from the executive office here, answering your question as well.
> Could you advise me on a reason that would convince my papa to accept my reactivating my Universe membership after taking a leave of absence?
To begin with, I don’t think you need to convince your papa.
You’re probably better off assuming that it’s impossible to convince someone who wants you to himself.
You may be worried about the risk of being found out, but when you compare that with the risk of continuing to see only one person, I think the latter is actually greater.
If that’s the case, it seems better to continue seeing other men while taking every possible precaution to avoid being found out.
Once you have five or more men you can see regularly, I think you should try explaining the situation honestly to your current papa.
If he still can’t accept it, then it’s time to part ways. When your views are fundamentally different, there’s nothing else you can do.
Even if you do break up, you’ll still have five or more other men, so I don’t think you’ll have any trouble supporting yourself or maintaining your lifestyle.
Parting with a man you like may be painful, but unless you’ve promised to get married, a breakup was bound to come eventually.
It’s only a matter of whether it happens sooner or later.
Since you’re feeling conflicted, I think it would be best to take action right away. That said, you should also think carefully about how to avoid being found out.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m with Kamihikōki on this one!
Why did you start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place?
Is your current papa’s support not enough?
I think you should give it some serious thought.
If you feel that your current papa’s support is insufficient, I do think resuming papa-katsu would be understandable.
That said,
if I were your papa and found out you had casually resumed papa-katsu, I’d end the relationship.
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I think you should restart it on your own.
If you really are as beautiful as you say, and you feel it would be a waste not to, then perhaps the relationship wasn’t really established in the first place?
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It really comes down to how you see it.
> “It feels like a waste to devote the prime of my youth to this.”
If you feel that devoting yourself to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would be a waste, then you should put your energy into something more valuable. From that perspective, having just one papa (a male supporter) should be enough.
I wouldn’t recommend making papa-katsu the center of your life or giving it too much weight.
It feels incredibly foolish and wasteful to spend your precious younger years fretting over something like papa-katsu.
Please wake up.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
With that mindset, you should fight this battle alone. There’s no point in seeking permission from men, and you’re not going to get it anyway. All you have to do is ask the club to make sure that man won’t see your profile, then reactivate your account (re-register).
I can’t say whether what you really need is a second papa. If your only goal is to prepare for the possibility of losing your current papa, wouldn’t it be enough to maintain the appeal that would allow you to find another papa if you happen to part ways? Managing multiple papas at the same time would only keep you busy, and in the end, they’ll all disappear if you lose your appeal. If you understand that your time in the game is limited and want to maximize your earnings in a short period, re-registering might be one option—but if that’s the case, I think working in the adult entertainment or nightlife industry would be more efficient. A dating club isn’t particularly efficient for women. But you can meet some genuinely good people there. I suppose it comes down to how you value that.
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