I’ve started dating someone I absolutely adore. I’d love to hear from all you relationship experts: what do you think is the secret to getting along well and staying close with your partner? Of course, I’m assuming that both people being kind is the basic foundation for making things last.

Maezawa from the president’s office here, and I’ll answer as well. Thank you for your question. I’m far from being an expert on romance, but from a man’s perspective, I feel that a woman being obedient is a big plus. If she also has a slightly mysterious side, that seems to make her even more appealing. That said, what attracts people differs from person to person, so I think it also depends on whether you can identify what appeals to him.

I’m Taro, a male member. I’m no relationship expert, but I’ll share my thoughts. I think it comes down to lowering your expectations and not asking for too much. At the same time, cherish the fun and happy moments you do have. Make sure to express your important feelings clearly, through both your words and actions. If you consistently do these basic things sincerely, I believe the results will naturally follow. It’s actually not that difficult.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. People who maintain long-term relationships tend to do so with anyone they date, while people whose relationships don’t last usually can’t maintain one with anyone. The difference is whether you’re the kind of person who likes someone more and more the longer you’re together, or whether the relationship is at its best right at the beginning. When the things you like about someone keep increasing, then even after years—or decades—you’ll find more things you like, understand, and appreciate than things that have cooled off or become boring. Your affection grows with time. At the same time, your interest in other potential partners gradually fades. Also, people are very sensitive to whether they’re needed and appreciated by their partner. It’s important not only that you yourself don’t lose interest or get bored, but also that you convey how grateful you are for their presence and the meaning they have in your life—even if you don’t quite put it into words as “gratitude.”